Women?? Do I really need One.....

[DanaC]

Well....not talking like a twat is pretty high on the list

:p

Sorry. Couldn't resist.

Honestly, there's no magic formula, nor a secret coda with which to unlock the female psyche. No woman here can tell you what 'women' are looking for. Only what they look for, and what they look for is individual to them, not something that can then be applied to women generally.

In my experience, women want pretty much the same things men want from relationships. Oh, there's tendencies for women to prioritise different aspects than men, but overall, guys and gals, not really that different from each other. Some women want commitment and some don't. Same as men. Some women want to lose themselves in a relationship, others want to draw sharp lines within it and maintain a strong sense of individualism. Same as men. Some women are helter skelter and drawn to calm and organised men. Some women are super organised and drawn to free spirits. Same as men.

Figure out what you want from a relationship and then see if you can find someone to match with whom there's a spark. That's it. That's all you can really do.

[eta] well put, Blueflare