Merry F'in Christmas - I want a divorce.

10-08-2006, 10:20 AM

I'm late in but from what I've been reading your "ex" seems to have had an affair or more to the point many affairs. It’s no slight on you but my guess is it was her guilt that brought about the divorce.

One thing regarding your divorce papers; if it’s still possible put in writing that she can't move more than 50 miles from you. This will keep here from moving across country with your boy.

Part-time fathering sucks period. Quality time isn't planed it just happens, but you'll make the best of the situation, I'm sure.

It’s always the way when one person starts to break away the other tries to hold on tighter and the conflict only intensifies. Once you "turn" and accept it and moved on she will come a knocking. They always come back, but your can never change the stripes on a Zebra. Never take her back.

Look at yourself and learn from your choices in women. I know from experience that some of what broke your marriage up existed before you where married and you saw it. But, like most people in love you become blinded.

Read up on being a divorced dad. There are lots of recourses. Try and get that 50 mile limitation.

To be totally honest, I would look outside the USA for any future bride. American women are a totally different breed of female. I think your be pleasantly surprised by some of the women you can meet in Brazil, Russia, or Asia. They tend to hold more traditional qualities and are educated and independent.

Trilby · 10-08-2006, 01:25 PM

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Originally Posted by bmwmcaw

To be totally honest, I would look outside the USA for any future bride. American women are a totally different breed of female. I think your be pleasantly surprised by some of the women you can meet in Brazil, Russia, or Asia. They tend to hold more traditional qualities and yet educated and independent.

Why does no one listen to me? I KNOW from people. I knew loverboy here was a creep from post one. Creep, creep, creepy creep-creep.

9th Engineer · 10-08-2006, 05:36 PM

If you need to hear this for the sake of fairness Bri, I completely agree with you here.

Trilby · 10-08-2006, 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by 9th Engineer

If you need to hear this for the sake of fairness Bri, I completely agree with you here.

Thank you. Engineer's cannot be all bad!

after all, my papa was an engineer.

9th Engineer · 10-08-2006, 06:21 PM

what's wrong with engineers? I, for one, have avoided acceptance into the pocket protector clan. we're fun once you get to know us

footfootfoot · 10-08-2006, 06:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Brianna

Why does no one listen to me? I KNOW from people. I knew loverboy here was a creep from post one. Creep, creep, creepy creep-creep.

I totally resent that Brianna. I was born a poor, asian, mail order bride...

Griff · 10-09-2006, 07:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Brianna

Why does no one listen to me? I KNOW from people. I knew loverboy here was a creep from post one. Creep, creep, creepy creep-creep.

I will never doubt you again.

10-08-2006, 10:20 AM	#1
bmwmcaw Guest Posts: n/a	I'm late in but from what I've been reading your "ex" seems to have had an affair or more to the point many affairs. It’s no slight on you but my guess is it was her guilt that brought about the divorce. One thing regarding your divorce papers; if it’s still possible put in writing that she can't move more than 50 miles from you. This will keep here from moving across country with your boy. Part-time fathering sucks period. Quality time isn't planed it just happens, but you'll make the best of the situation, I'm sure. It’s always the way when one person starts to break away the other tries to hold on tighter and the conflict only intensifies. Once you "turn" and accept it and moved on she will come a knocking. They always come back, but your can never change the stripes on a Zebra. Never take her back. Look at yourself and learn from your choices in women. I know from experience that some of what broke your marriage up existed before you where married and you saw it. But, like most people in love you become blinded. Read up on being a divorced dad. There are lots of recourses. Try and get that 50 mile limitation. To be totally honest, I would look outside the USA for any future bride. American women are a totally different breed of female. I think your be pleasantly surprised by some of the women you can meet in Brazil, Russia, or Asia. They tend to hold more traditional qualities and are educated and independent. Last edited by bmwmcaw; 10-08-2006 at 03:38 PM.

10-08-2006, 05:36 PM	#3
9th Engineer Bioengineer and aspiring lawer Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Pittsburgh Posts: 872	If you need to hear this for the sake of fairness Bri, I completely agree with you here. __________________ The most valuable renewable resource is stupidity.

10-08-2006, 06:21 PM	#5
9th Engineer Bioengineer and aspiring lawer Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Pittsburgh Posts: 872	what's wrong with engineers? I, for one, have avoided acceptance into the pocket protector clan. we're fun once you get to know us __________________ The most valuable renewable resource is stupidity.

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