Sexual history doesn't matter? Who would marry a porn star?

[morethanpretty]

Originally Posted by 9th Engineer

Unfortunately the issue at hand in this thread would be BMW's ranting, he started the damn thing after all...

I tried to read from the beginning but it started turning foul on the first page. If its all just bmw's rant, then why are so many cellarites paying attention? I say that we all are more intelligent then to be involved in such a pointless petty squabble. Trading insult after insult is really immature and it somewhat dissapoints me that we are so easily captured by bmw's hostile posts. By being so responsive to his posts, we are only encouraging him. For example my brother and I used to have burping contests and when my sis got mad/cried we were only encouraged to burp more, louder and longer. Unfortunatly it has been a long time since my bro and I have had the chance to engage in a serious contest, and I think that I have lost my touch.
That said...
Let me address the question bmw originally psted then:
I would not marry a porn star who is currently working as such, but if they have since left that job, no longer lead a promiscuous life, and respect sex as a demonstration of equal parts emotional love, and physical passion then I would consider them. Of course I would have to find other similarties and love them as a person before I would want to dedicate my love to them. But being a former porn star in of itself is not enough to cause me to disregard them as a partner.

[Ibby]

I already answered the thread's question, but I'll do so once more.

By the way, to answer the thread title, yes, yes I would. I dont like the thought of my girlfriend having sex with other people, nor do i like the thought of other people watching, but if she were to decide thats what she wants to do then I would support her, because I love her and it would still be worth it, because I love her for who she IS, not who she does.

Originally Posted by bmwmcaw

Hey, Dr. Freud, is that your professional opinion or more crap mouth. Homophobia is another one of those argument control tactics. The notion that people that don't accept homosexuality are supposed to be repressing is like playing the race card or women hater to control the conversation.

It’s not my place to tell people how to live but I don't have to accept it or like it. Characterizing those that don't agree with you as physiologically deficient is the weakest hand you can play. Just like playing the race card or women hater, it’s nothing more than a cheap shot.

That little emotional outburst is pretty telling.

Originally Posted by morethanpretty

I tried to read from the beginning but it started turning foul on the first page. If its all just bmw's rant, then why are so many cellarites paying attention? I say that we all are more intelligent then to be involved in such a pointless petty squabble. Trading insult after insult is really immature and it somewhat dissapoints me that we are so easily captured by bmw's hostile posts. By being so responsive to his posts, we are only encouraging him. For example my brother and I used to have burping contests and when my sis got mad/cried we were only encouraged to burp more, louder and longer. Unfortunatly it has been a long time since my bro and I have had the chance to engage in a serious contest, and I think that I have lost my touch.
That said...
Let me address the question bmw originally psted then:
I would not marry a porn star who is currently working as such, but if they have since left that job, no longer lead a promiscuous life, and respect sex as a demonstration of equal parts emotional love, and physical passion then I would consider them. Of course I would have to find other similarties and love them as a person before I would want to dedicate my love to them. But being a former porn star in of itself is not enough to cause me to disregard them as a partner.

Oh yea is all me. It must be nice to have such selective attention.

Originally Posted by rkzenrage

That little emotional outburst is pretty telling.

Do tell. If I can articulate why can't you? You got a big mouth and an insulting disposition now show everybody you got some gray matter too.

Originally Posted by 9th Engineer

Unfortunately the issue at hand in this thread would be BMW's ranting, he started the damn thing after all...

Self-respect is not so vile a sin as self-neglect.

It appears many people on this board have very selective memories and perceptions. My rantings, and what would you call those insulting and childish retorts by other posters??????

Are those my rantings too? If you care to read carefully it wasn't me that threw the first hand full of mud. I wonder if that really matters now that the gang has decided that intelligence conversation isn't as important as ostracizing posters.

Pray tell sir. Or maybe that point is just to intelligent to address.

[Ibby]

Stop trying to act like a victim and back up your bullshit with something other than bigotry, prejudice, and sexism.

Oh yeah, and just for good measure...
Fuckin' homophobe.

Originally Posted by Happy Monkey

What, exactly, does it mean when you don't "accept" homosexuality? I hear all the time that homosexuals are trying to "force" people to "accept" them, but I've bever been clear what that entails. I would have expected that if you recognize that it's not your " place to tell people how to live", then you have accepted it.

No its not acceptance. Life is about choices. Respecting peoples choice, good or bad, immoral or unethical, ethical and moral, or even criminal, isn't acceptance its recognition. Once recognized its up to the law or the social norms in a particular culture of a society to determine its affect on how people treat one another.

We may not like many of the laws or social norms of a society or culture but we obey them as a civil duty. In any society no person is an island we are all part of a community link together. Norms change and cultures evolves but its the direction of the evolution which will always be in contention. Ok!

I know, I know, more BM rantings.

[Ibby]

Still ignoring me, bmwmcaw?

[Happy Monkey]

Originally Posted by bmwmcaw

No its not acceptance.

Then what are you doing to stop it? If you recognize that it is not your place to do anything to stop it, then you have decided that you find it acceptible. You may not like it, but you've accepted it.

[morethanpretty]

Originally Posted by bmwmcaw

Oh yea is all me. It must be nice to have such selective attention.

Originally Posted by morethanpretty

Trading insult after insult is really immature and it somewhat dissapoints me that we are so easily captured

[Elspode]

So...tell me again how adults doing what they want to other consenting adults is going to harm our society, influence our children and generally sap us of our essential fluids? 'Cause I'm not getting it. How, precisely, is being gay an abomination? Because someone slips Part A into Part C instead of Part B? I mean, I've slipped Part A into Mrs Elspode's Part C a few times. Does that make me abominable? What if I've spilled my seed on the ground a time or two?

I'm just trying to get a handle on this whole "abomination" thing. I'm completely lost.

Originally Posted by Elspode

So...tell me again how adults doing what they want to other consenting adults is going to harm our society, influence our children and generally sap us of our essential fluids? 'Cause I'm not getting it. How, precisely, is being gay an abomination? Because someone slips Part A into Part C instead of Part B? I mean, I've slipped Part A into Mrs Elspode's Part C a few times. Does that make me abominable? What if I've spilled my seed on the ground a time or two?

I'm just trying to get a handle on this whole "abomination" thing. I'm completely lost.

Ok, I'll try an answer your failure to understand this way; Life begins at conception, life is perpetuated by members of the same species through copulation between opposite of their respective sexes. I can't even think of one species of plant or animal on this wide earth that engages in homosexual acts on a regular base, if at all.

If not just that it runs counter to everything we see around us in the natural world it and the natural order if left to grow and spread it could theoretically lead to the extinction of all mankind. Now hows that for sapping the essential fluids out of ya.

Objection to homosexuality and its deviant behavior isn’t just based on personal dislike but a sound argument based on the natural world.

BTW, sodomy is an abomination because that’s not how those parts are supposed to be used. Abominations and our collective recognition of them stems from gross affronts to actions that fall outside the natural order of things and our collective definitions of social norms.


Getting a little clearer now?

[Ibby]

I can't even think of one species of plant or animal on this wide earth that engages in homosexual acts on a regular base, if at all.

Dolphins, for one.

In fact, most species show signs of homosexuality. Do some research if youre going to try to use science and logic to defend your bigotry.

...And 'not how theyre supposed to be used' according to who, exactly?

[Trilby]

Loads of animals are homosexual.

Ah. guess you've been too busy to watch the DiscoveryChannel, eh? well, no matter. I'm sure your school of...whatever...has many, MANY followers...really hope none of them turn out to be Gay, though.