I'm polyamorous and into the BDSM lifestyle as a switch and bottom.

[LabRat]

Originally Posted by Treasenuak

With the right Sir, person, one whom the submissive other partner trusts and knows and has a good relationship and rapport with, the submissive both can enter a mental space called commonly "subspace" your happy place. ~snip~ It's peaceful... quiet... nothing exists except you and your Dom/me. partner. The outside world ceases for you while you are in that space. All your daily worries and concerns are just... gone, for a while. It's amazing. Add to that the delightful aftercare glow and feeling of closeness the submissive each partner receives after a good scene, romp, and possibly the delicious ache of muscles for the next day or two afterwards, and you may have the beginning of an inkling of why I identify as being part of the Ss/m crowd. get why I enjoy sex. ~snip~

Fixed your post to reflect how I feel about the kind of sex I like, the good 'old fashioned' kind.

You post helped me to understand a bit more what you get from this type of play, thanks.