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barely disguised asshole, keeper of all that is holy.
Join Date: Nov 2007
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I haven't been around and I dunno who or what is going on, but hang in there. There is LIFE on the other side. Many of us have been through it.
Hang tight, keep your head about you and THINK before acting. Be well.
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Slattern of the Swail
Join Date: Jul 2004
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yeah, I;ve been thru it TWICE.
sucked both times but one time sucked harder than the other. LOVE to you, anon.
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Person who doesn't update the user title
Join Date: Mar 2011
Posts: 13,002
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Oh, this sucks.
But my sense of the matter is that you've been way too unhappy for way too long. I know there are two sides to every story but your situation seems a bit nightmarish and the end result is the same: you're unhappy as hell and that's no way to live. Hang in there. |
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still says videotape
Join Date: Feb 2001
Posts: 26,813
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Good luck dude. Bruce is right, get your gear out and safely stowed.
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The Un-Tuckian
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: South Central...KY that is
Posts: 39,517
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Holy shit! I actually know who we're talking about. I think it's the first time.
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Goon Squad Leader
Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: Seattle
Posts: 27,063
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I am Spartacus!
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#22 |
Encroaching on your decrees
Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: An island within the south-west coast of Scotland
Posts: 7,016
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No, I am Spartacus!
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trying hard to be a better person
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Brisbane, Australia
Posts: 16,493
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You're both wrong. Jim is Spartacus!
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The Un-Tuckian
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: South Central...KY that is
Posts: 39,517
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I'm not Spartacus...am I?
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Not Suspicious, Merely Canadian
Join Date: Oct 2006
Posts: 3,774
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No, I'm Spartacus. Equal opportunity, y'know.
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Werepandas - lurking in your shadows
Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: In the Deep South
Posts: 3,408
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Women can use you and toss you aside without ever looking back. It hurts. I still hurt deeply from my last crash & burn 5 years ago. But, things do get better and it really helps if you can move away so you don't run into her or even hear about her
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Junior Master Dwellar
Join Date: May 2011
Posts: 2,728
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Sorry to hear, Anon. Stay strong and good luck.
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Not Suspicious, Merely Canadian
Join Date: Oct 2006
Posts: 3,774
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Quote:
And moving away is a good thing, I've found.
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The future is unwritten
Join Date: Oct 2002
Posts: 71,105
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It certainly does cut both ways, there's nasty people in every camp.
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Operations Operative
Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: in hiding
Posts: 578
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So I went to see a counselor the other day to address some of the emotional issues. At one point he said, "It doesn't sound like you need marriage counseling, it sounds like you need divorce counseling."
I've not moved out yet, but I am in another bedroom and there's a lot of civility. which is good, One of the things I've realized just recently is that she doesn't really love me, although she says and thinks she does. It's more like she likes the idea of loving me but wouldn't really know what love was if it bit her on the ankle. I'm sure she loves the kids, but she's not married to them. Anyway, I'm taking steps to keep things civil for the kids and paving the way for divorce counseling. Kind of scary. |
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