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[Pamela]

Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce

Yeah, since your bag isn't BDSM, that would be most unwelcome. In sketchy places, road flares look enough like dynamite to scare off troublemakers when you whip your coat open. But I suppose it would kill the elegance of your outfit.

I'm trying to be as casual/upbeat about a very serious danger, as you are apparently trying to be, although we both know it's serious.

You obviously do not know me vewy well, do you? I have been involved in BDSM for nearly 30 years. But, as tempting as it is to take a twelve foot bullwhip to certain people, there is that consensuality thing.

I do keep a flare gun and a few smoky flares and a few M-250s in my pick em up truck since those rednecks tried to run me off the road, just in case. And my personal defense training is superior to most. But it's the surprise from nowhere that worries me most.

[xoxoxoBruce]

My bad, I thought you quit the abuse when the Philly chick stole your dog.

[Pamela]

Laid off for a long while. Still laid off, really. Lotta psychology involved which I won't bore you with. But I still hang with my friends in that community and attend parties and events and live vicariously.