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Old 11-21-2008, 09:44 PM   #1
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tx trea. their full names are listed somewhere for your viewing pleasure.
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Old 11-22-2008, 09:09 AM   #2
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How important are possessions to your kids? My 12 year old was never into anything material until this year (7th grade). Between her schoolmates, and her same ages cousins, it just seems awfully competitive to have the latest cell phone, Ipod, etc. How about in your family?
It isn't important to my girls, but we've noticed kids in their age group are increasingly stuff oriented. We've ducked the clothing aspect of it by sending them to schools with a dress codes. There is one kid in #2's class who spends inordinate amounts of time bragging about her stuff but she is so annoying it seems to be immunizing the other kids. (#2 did however just get a new drum kit...) #1 is passionate about her art, fencing, and school work and so doesn't have time/desire for gear without utility in those areas. I guess it is a question of cliques. #2 may be more susceptable to that than #1 but she can often go her own way.
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Old 11-22-2008, 10:18 AM   #3
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Saw the Stuff DVD is a Modern Drummer (magazine) review.

Regarding the hard drive: yes, I believe digital possessions can have all the pitfalls of physical ones.
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Old 11-22-2008, 11:00 AM   #4
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I was afraid of that.
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