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Wanted to add that I didn't take your suggestions indignantly--I wholeheartedly agree that a lot of kids' problems are directly traceable to pushover parents. We are, if anything, more authoritative with him than we have been with the other kids, because I know he responds well to very defined and immobile boundaries. Give him an inch, he'll want to take a mile. After enough consistency, he's usually pretty good about accepting that this is "just the way things are." Of course, God help us if we then need to change the pattern ourselves, because it isn't happening.
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I think it's, 85% of all parents forget they're top management.
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A lot of this sounds like classic autism behaviour, especially getting stuck in loops and insisting on certain routines.
If it is, it will be a challenge but it's not a disaster. Accurate diagnosis and appropriate management will make all the difference. Best of luck with the little fella.
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I see Clod. Wow man, this has all got to be wearing you down.
Get the little guy checked out Clod, definitely.
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I've got nothing terribly insightful to add, just that from the description, this sounds like more than just your standard 2 year old nutty behavior and you should discuss it with your pediatrician at the next opportunity.
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Maybe I'm missing something in here but I don't really see a problem in here. Kids are kids.
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I'm certainly not dismissing your concerns and would certainly support the suggestion to have him tested, but I wanted to point out that nothing you've described is really that out there. Kids are kids and they all have their own quirks and stages. I will say this, though. Everytime (so far) Lil Lookout has picked up a quirk that was really bugging me to the point of being a REAL problem it would fade away on it's own. chin up, mom - you've got a boy.
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Could be. I've been accused of being simple more than once in my life.
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Having a kid with a disorder like autism or asperger's does not mean the only way to deal is with drugs and other special means. Unless the problem is severe - and I doubt it, even if there is some of this happening with mini-clod - it usually IS treated with behavioral modification.
Diet modification too. Sometimes odd behaviors in children (and probably adults as well) are caused by allergies or sensitivities to food, such as gluten, wheat products, artificial dyes, etc. That said, if his quirks don't interfere with happiness, safety and daily success, there's nothing wrong with being a bit of a nutter. That's what I keep telling people who don't understand me! |
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I noticed something similar with my son. He was having school troubles - even more so than now - and when he started wrestling everything changed. Not saying that in either case it was an instant cure, but the sports help in so many ways. I really wonder how different my life would have been if I had been able to play sports. |
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