What contraception do you use? - Page 2

fargon · 07-06-2007, 03:11 PM

NONE

busterb · 07-06-2007, 03:13 PM

AGE! And being ugly

kerosene · 07-06-2007, 05:45 PM

My husband has had the V. If he didn't, I don't think I would use anything, since hormonal bc messes with me so dramatically.

Baila · 04-21-2008, 01:39 PM

I was on the pill for a year and hated the irritability and all the horrible side effects, so now I have gotten a cervical cap-the femcap- and use that will spermicide and also my boyfriend doesn't ejaculate inside me, so I think we are taking more than enough precautions to not get pregnant but he is still so paranoid about it, he still doesn't think that that is enough-the femcap, spermicide and withdrawal! I don't think that is being irrational but rather responsible, but I can't seem to convince him otherwise...

Sundae · 07-07-2007, 02:18 AM

I have a 3 year implant in my arm - Implanon single proestogen only if that makes it any clearer.

It's due for renewal, and I'm debating as to whether to bother.
I get on with it perfectly well - no bleeding, no hormonal mood swings, it's been such a boon in that way.

But as I don't have sex any more (

) I wonder if I can justify it.
I might, just to be on the safe side. Getting it taken out will be pretty grim - I might as well have another one in there at the same time.

I'm quite an evangelist about it in real life - I recommend it to any pre-menopausal woman I meet. Well, if the subject comes up I mean! I've been trying to get my 16yo co-worker on it. She's considering the 3 monthly injection now as a halfway house (I was on Depo-provera for 6 years).

As an aside - it amazes me how many of my friends/ colleagues don't know the name of their contraceptive medicine. I've always known mine - and read up on it independently, even before the internet was available as a tool. I can only assume it's because contraception is free in this country, so people take whatever their given. Me, I like to know about what I'm taking - I had to ask for the implant, it wasn't offered to me despite the fact it saves the NHS money. "We don't find mony women are interested" was the response.

Elspode · 07-07-2007, 08:10 AM

Well, this is a timely topic for me. Prior to polyamory, no BC was necessary as Selene has had her baby making equipment retired. Now, however, the grim world of latex has been foisted upon me. Grim, because, at 50...I can't feel a damn thing with one on. I therefore find myself in the curious and unenviable position of having a lot of sex...but not having a lot of orgasms. While I still enjoy the process, the intimacy, the opportunity to have my partner writhe and moan and be generally appreciative, repeated fruitless gyrations are beginning to wear on my psyche.

I'm pretty sure I'm headed for a vasectomy as a result.

Pie · 07-07-2007, 02:00 PM

IUD, Mirena. Before that, the pill for over a decade.

Stormieweather · 07-07-2007, 02:44 PM

Nada. And let me tell you, that can have unpredictable results, even if you think you're past the baby-making age.

Stormie

<who had a baby two years ago - and I'm in my mid 40's now>

theotherguy · 07-07-2007, 02:54 PM

I am getting the V on Friday.

DucksNuts · 07-08-2007, 05:18 AM

My boss was back at work the afternoon he had his V. Fuckwit.

Pie - how long have you had your Mirena and how have you found it?

Stormie - nice to see you around again.

Stormieweather · 07-08-2007, 02:12 PM

Thanks Ducks!

I didn't think anyone noticed my lack of posts lately (just really busy, although reading when I can).

By the way, I've used Depo-Prevara shots as well as pills. I have gotten pregnant on the pill and learned that you really must read the fine print carefully. If you get too toasted and worship the porcelan god, use alternative bc. If you take antibiotics, use alternative bc. During the week of placebo pills, use alternative bc. Seriously. I have proof, age 19.

Pie · 07-08-2007, 05:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DucksNuts

Pie - how long have you had your Mirena and how have you found it?

Since February. Getting it in hurt like a mofo! I had premedicated with Advil -- didn't make a damns' worth of difference. (To calibrate to pain scale, I've had gallstones -- this hurt worse.) Took the whole day off work (Friday) and had the weekend to recuperate. I had a week of bad cramping, two weeks of milder cramping, 1 week of very light cramping... And some light spotting of blood for the first two months. I continued on the pill for the first month as a "backup" method (since spontaneous expulsion can happen early on.) I've had one light period since I went off the hormones back in March.

It's been trouble-free since. I make it a habit to check for its presence once in a while, otherwise I'd never know it was there... My GP warned me that my insurance would probably not cover it, but they did! I was out $50 total - copays for two visits (pre-screening & actual insertion). Not too bad!

I was lucky with the pill, because I didn't notice any change to my moods, physical wellbeing, etc. I decided to go for a more long-term method since I am quite firmly in the "no-children-desired" camp. My husband is not so sure, so I promised that I wouldn't do something irreversible. This was a good compromise.

-Pie

Pie · 07-08-2007, 05:04 PM

Oh, and DN -- if you've had kids, the procedure is far less painful. Being a nullipara makes it a lot worse.

DucksNuts · 07-08-2007, 10:04 PM

I've had mine in since last July.

I didnt have much trouble with the insertion as I am pretty good at relaxing apparently (mild discomfort and lots of *think happy thoughts, think happy thoughts* going on).

Cramping was fine, but I found I went a bit weird for a few months, like mood swings and paranoia...which I have never had with hormones before.

My big thing is spotting after sex...especially...umm....vigorous sex...but I guess thats a bit of a pay off for months of no periods.

Perry Winkle · 07-08-2007, 11:02 PM

Condoms. Lifestyles brand. Lots of them.

Both getting an STD test this week, and she's going on the pill.

TMI?

07-06-2007, 03:11 PM	#1
fargon Person who doesn't update the user title Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: La Crosse, WI Posts: 8,924	NONE __________________ Annoy the ones that ignore you!!! I live a blessed life I Love my Country, I Fear the Government!!! Heavily medicated for the good of mankind.

07-06-2007, 03:13 PM	#2
busterb NSABFD Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: MS. usa Posts: 3,908	AGE! And being ugly __________________ I've haven't left very deep footprints in the sands of time. But, boy I've left a bunch.

04-21-2008, 01:39 PM	#4
Baila Kinda New Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 1	cervical cap I was on the pill for a year and hated the irritability and all the horrible side effects, so now I have gotten a cervical cap-the femcap- and use that will spermicide and also my boyfriend doesn't ejaculate inside me, so I think we are taking more than enough precautions to not get pregnant but he is still so paranoid about it, he still doesn't think that that is enough-the femcap, spermicide and withdrawal! I don't think that is being irrational but rather responsible, but I can't seem to convince him otherwise...

07-07-2007, 02:18 AM	#5
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	I have a 3 year implant in my arm - Implanon single proestogen only if that makes it any clearer. It's due for renewal, and I'm debating as to whether to bother. I get on with it perfectly well - no bleeding, no hormonal mood swings, it's been such a boon in that way. But as I don't have sex any more () I wonder if I can justify it. I might, just to be on the safe side. Getting it taken out will be pretty grim - I might as well have another one in there at the same time. I'm quite an evangelist about it in real life - I recommend it to any pre-menopausal woman I meet. Well, if the subject comes up I mean! I've been trying to get my 16yo co-worker on it. She's considering the 3 monthly injection now as a halfway house (I was on Depo-provera for 6 years). As an aside - it amazes me how many of my friends/ colleagues don't know the name of their contraceptive medicine. I've always known mine - and read up on it independently, even before the internet was available as a tool. I can only assume it's because contraception is free in this country, so people take whatever their given. Me, I like to know about what I'm taking - I had to ask for the implant, it wasn't offered to me despite the fact it saves the NHS money. "We don't find mony women are interested" was the response. __________________ Life's hard you know, so strike a pose on a Cadillac

07-07-2007, 08:10 AM	#6
Elspode When Do I Get Virtual Unreality? Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Raytown, Missouri Posts: 12,719	Well, this is a timely topic for me. Prior to polyamory, no BC was necessary as Selene has had her baby making equipment retired. Now, however, the grim world of latex has been foisted upon me. Grim, because, at 50...I can't feel a damn thing with one on. I therefore find myself in the curious and unenviable position of having a lot of sex...but not having a lot of orgasms. While I still enjoy the process, the intimacy, the opportunity to have my partner writhe and moan and be generally appreciative, repeated fruitless gyrations are beginning to wear on my psyche. I'm pretty sure I'm headed for a vasectomy as a result. __________________ "To those of you who are wearing ties, I think my dad would appreciate it if you took them off." - Robert Moog

07-06-2007, 05:45 PM	#3
kerosene Touring the facilities Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: The plains of Colorado Posts: 3,476	My husband has had the V. If he didn't, I don't think I would use anything, since hormonal bc messes with me so dramatically.

07-07-2007, 02:00 PM	#7
Pie Gone and done Join Date: Sep 2001 Posts: 4,808	IUD, Mirena. Before that, the pill for over a decade. __________________ per·son \ˈpər-sən\ (noun) - an ephemeral collection of small, irrational decisions The fun thing about evolution (and science in general) is that it happens whether you believe in it or not.

07-07-2007, 02:44 PM	#8
Stormieweather Wearing her bitch boots Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Floriduh Posts: 1,181	Nada. And let me tell you, that can have unpredictable results, even if you think you're past the baby-making age. Stormie <who had a baby two years ago - and I'm in my mid 40's now> __________________ "First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they fight you, then you win." - Mahatma Gandhi

07-07-2007, 02:54 PM	#9
theotherguy no not that other guy, the other one Join Date: May 2007 Location: TN Posts: 640	I am getting the V on Friday. __________________ I should be working.

07-08-2007, 05:18 AM	#10
DucksNuts Bitchy Little Brat Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 5,067	My boss was back at work the afternoon he had his V. Fuckwit. Pie - how long have you had your Mirena and how have you found it? Stormie - nice to see you around again.

07-08-2007, 02:12 PM	#11
Stormieweather Wearing her bitch boots Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Floriduh Posts: 1,181	Thanks Ducks! I didn't think anyone noticed my lack of posts lately (just really busy, although reading when I can). By the way, I've used Depo-Prevara shots as well as pills. I have gotten pregnant on the pill and learned that you really must read the fine print carefully. If you get too toasted and worship the porcelan god, use alternative bc. If you take antibiotics, use alternative bc. During the week of placebo pills, use alternative bc. Seriously. I have proof, age 19. __________________ "First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they fight you, then you win." - Mahatma Gandhi

07-08-2007, 05:04 PM	#13
Pie Gone and done Join Date: Sep 2001 Posts: 4,808	Oh, and DN -- if you've had kids, the procedure is far less painful. Being a nullipara makes it a lot worse. __________________ per·son \ˈpər-sən\ (noun) - an ephemeral collection of small, irrational decisions The fun thing about evolution (and science in general) is that it happens whether you believe in it or not.

07-08-2007, 10:04 PM	#14
DucksNuts Bitchy Little Brat Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 5,067	I've had mine in since last July. I didnt have much trouble with the insertion as I am pretty good at relaxing apparently (mild discomfort and lots of think happy thoughts, think happy thoughts going on). Cramping was fine, but I found I went a bit weird for a few months, like mood swings and paranoia...which I have never had with hormones before. My big thing is spotting after sex...especially...umm....vigorous sex...but I guess thats a bit of a pay off for months of no periods.

07-08-2007, 11:02 PM	#15
Perry Winkle Esnohplad Semaj Ton Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: A little south of sanity Posts: 2,259	Condoms. Lifestyles brand. Lots of them. Both getting an STD test this week, and she's going on the pill. TMI?

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