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SteveBsjb · 05-29-2006, 02:15 PM

I don't mind commentary as I've said. Again, it's the fact that you seem to enjoy attacking others here, it makes me wonder why you are like that.

And I think that you think your version of the world is the only one that matters. You make me sad, actually.

MaggieL · 05-29-2006, 03:18 PM

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it makes me wonder why you are like that.

Gee, sounds like an attack to me :-) Anyway, I know exactly why you are like that.

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And I think that you think your version of the world is the only one that matters. You make me sad, actually.

Yes...your deeply sympathy is palpable. Sorry about your inability to handle pushback without whining...and my failure to give your "version of the world" the consideration you think it deserves is tragic too.

But don't worry: after all, "it's only a message board".

SteveBsjb · 05-29-2006, 03:27 PM

I don't worry or whine. I wonder. It's only words on a screen, but thinking about why other people prefer to spread illwill is something I will probably continue to do.

xoxoxoBruce · 05-29-2006, 08:05 PM

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Originally Posted by SteveBsjb

I don't mind commentary as I've said. Again, it's the fact that you seem to enjoy attacking others here, it makes me wonder why you are like that.

And I think that you think your version of the world is the only one that matters. You make me sad, actually.

Don't feel special, Maggie rags on everyone.

SteveBsjb · 05-29-2006, 08:34 PM

hehehe... i know

Cheyenne · 05-29-2006, 10:05 PM

just for maggie

MaggieL · 05-29-2006, 10:23 PM

Actually I only rag on people who I think deserve it, when I think they do. It's just that some people rate it more often than others.

Sometimes I can't help but think a lot of the AG refugees would be happier on MySpace or something like that. Then they'd only have to listen to people who are sucking up to them.

SteveBsjb · 05-30-2006, 06:56 AM

Yeah, but you Margaret are the one that seems to "rate it more than others." Glass houses, and all that.

MaggieL · 05-30-2006, 10:28 AM

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Yeah, but you Margaret are the one that seems to "rate it more than others." Glass houses, and all that.

Well, that's "your version of the world". It's not "the only one that matters", right? It's just the one where the original post was "just a friendly gesture" rather than "spam trying to stuff a ballot box".

That relativism stuff cuts both ways.

SteveBsjb · 05-30-2006, 11:09 AM

Right, but I react to your attacks; whereas you always like to get your digs in (what I call an attack). That's the difference to me. I am not an attacker. I don't want to police the board, but I will comment on your need to spread illwill when you "attack" me.

I don't criticize your posts, but you like to criticize mine. Just live and let live.

MaggieL · 05-30-2006, 11:49 AM

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I don't criticize your posts

Of course you do. But it's OK when you do it.

SteveBsjb · 05-30-2006, 12:05 PM

If I do it's only in reaction to your need to get first blood. I never go after anyone first. There's 100's of people that I've talked with here (dozens, maybe?) that I just have fun with. But you come into my threads and insult, so I will in my own way shoot it right back at you. But I don't ever go into your threads looking to attack you first.

wolf · 05-30-2006, 01:38 PM

I am sorry that you do not have enough confidence in your friend to allow her to win on her own merits.

Although, based on the other ladies' pictures, your girl's merits aren't quite stacking up, no matter how good a martini she pours.

MaggieL · 05-30-2006, 01:45 PM

See? It is OK when you do it, in your "version of the world".

You don't own threads...they're not "your threads" or "my threads"; they are The Cellar. When I say you're spamming and trying to stuff a ballot box, you can feel "insulted" if you want, but it's simple truth; blaming me for pointing it out doesn't change anything. And claiming a halo because you want to paint it as an "act of friendship" is disingenuous.

SteveBsjb · 05-30-2006, 03:01 PM

I don't feel insulted. Stop thinking I am worried, or insulted, or that I am whining. All I am is wondering what would make someone step into a thread on a message board with intent of making that other person feel bad. WONDER - not that I feel slighted, I am just recognizing that you don't care that you may be insulting to others.

05-29-2006, 02:15 PM	#31
SteveBsjb Operations Operative Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Moved from Manhattan to Edgewater, NJ. Posts: 713	I don't mind commentary as I've said. Again, it's the fact that you seem to enjoy attacking others here, it makes me wonder why you are like that. And I think that you think your version of the world is the only one that matters. You make me sad, actually. __________________ "It's only an internet community."

05-29-2006, 03:27 PM	#33
SteveBsjb Operations Operative Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Moved from Manhattan to Edgewater, NJ. Posts: 713	I don't worry or whine. I wonder. It's only words on a screen, but thinking about why other people prefer to spread illwill is something I will probably continue to do. __________________ "It's only an internet community."

05-29-2006, 08:34 PM	#35
SteveBsjb Operations Operative Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Moved from Manhattan to Edgewater, NJ. Posts: 713	hehehe... i know __________________ "It's only an internet community."

05-29-2006, 10:05 PM	#36
Cheyenne Operations Operative Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: http://www.kevinlahey.com/mt.html Posts: 616	just for maggie __________________ ~What Flows From Your Fingertips Is A Reflection Of Your Heart~~ Chey~~

05-29-2006, 10:23 PM	#37
MaggieL in the Hour of Scampering Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Jeffersonville PA (15 mi NW of Philadelphia) Posts: 4,060	Actually I only rag on people who I think deserve it, when I think they do. It's just that some people rate it more often than others. Sometimes I can't help but think a lot of the AG refugees would be happier on MySpace or something like that. Then they'd only have to listen to people who are sucking up to them. __________________ "Neither can his Mind be thought to be in Tune,whose words do jarre; nor his reason In frame, whose sentence is preposterous..."

05-30-2006, 06:56 AM	#38
SteveBsjb Operations Operative Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Moved from Manhattan to Edgewater, NJ. Posts: 713	Yeah, but you Margaret are the one that seems to "rate it more than others." Glass houses, and all that. __________________ "It's only an internet community."

05-30-2006, 11:09 AM	#40
SteveBsjb Operations Operative Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Moved from Manhattan to Edgewater, NJ. Posts: 713	Right, but I react to your attacks; whereas you always like to get your digs in (what I call an attack). That's the difference to me. I am not an attacker. I don't want to police the board, but I will comment on your need to spread illwill when you "attack" me. I don't criticize your posts, but you like to criticize mine. Just live and let live. __________________ "It's only an internet community." Last edited by SteveBsjb; 05-30-2006 at 11:14 AM.

05-30-2006, 12:05 PM	#42
SteveBsjb Operations Operative Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Moved from Manhattan to Edgewater, NJ. Posts: 713	If I do it's only in reaction to your need to get first blood. I never go after anyone first. There's 100's of people that I've talked with here (dozens, maybe?) that I just have fun with. But you come into my threads and insult, so I will in my own way shoot it right back at you. But I don't ever go into your threads looking to attack you first. __________________ "It's only an internet community."

05-30-2006, 01:38 PM	#43
wolf lobber of scimitars Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Phila Burbs Posts: 20,774	I am sorry that you do not have enough confidence in your friend to allow her to win on her own merits. Although, based on the other ladies' pictures, your girl's merits aren't quite stacking up, no matter how good a martini she pours. __________________ wolf eht htiw og "Conspiracies are the norm, not the exception." --G. Edward Griffin The Creature from Jekyll Island High Priestess of the Church of the Whale Penis

05-30-2006, 01:45 PM	#44
MaggieL in the Hour of Scampering Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Jeffersonville PA (15 mi NW of Philadelphia) Posts: 4,060	See? It is OK when you do it, in your "version of the world". You don't own threads...they're not "your threads" or "my threads"; they are The Cellar. When I say you're spamming and trying to stuff a ballot box, you can feel "insulted" if you want, but it's simple truth; blaming me for pointing it out doesn't change anything. And claiming a halo because you want to paint it as an "act of friendship" is disingenuous. __________________ "Neither can his Mind be thought to be in Tune,whose words do jarre; nor his reason In frame, whose sentence is preposterous..."

05-30-2006, 03:01 PM	#45
SteveBsjb Operations Operative Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Moved from Manhattan to Edgewater, NJ. Posts: 713	I don't feel insulted. Stop thinking I am worried, or insulted, or that I am whining. All I am is wondering what would make someone step into a thread on a message board with intent of making that other person feel bad. WONDER - not that I feel slighted, I am just recognizing that you don't care that you may be insulting to others. __________________ "It's only an internet community."

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