The Sex Thread - Page 53

laebedahs · 01-15-2006, 09:03 PM

It's not new. I first had sex with another man when I was 15 but after that I was with my wife (speaking of which filed for divorce 2 days ago woohoo) for 6 years. Once we split up I started doing this again to see what it was like. A year into our marriage we started swinging and had a lot of plans, but she was insecure so a lot of things never happened.

Being with and subsequently married to my wife taught me a lot of things: be honest with people, but above all, be honest with yourself. You're only delaying the inevitable if you don't.

To answer your question, Sun Sparkz, all of my partners have been bisexual.

Rock Steady · 01-29-2006, 10:52 PM

That is interesting and thought provoking. It also seems like a lot of history to manage at this age.

laebedahs · 02-10-2006, 08:06 AM

This thread needs some spark!

The topic: Men who dress like women. Otherwise known as tranvestites (men who just wear women's clothing), shemales (men who look just like women but still have the "extra" stuff), transgenders (men who have made the transition from man to woman completely).

Are the men who are with them gay, curious, or straight? Do you find them attractive, are you indifferent to them, or do you find them disgusting? Discuss.

I have my opinions on the topic but will post them later.

Rock Steady · 02-11-2006, 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by laebedahs

This thread needs some spark!

The topic: Men who dress like women. Otherwise known as tranvestites (men who just wear women's clothing), shemales (men who look just like women but still have the "extra" stuff), transgenders (men who have made the transition from man to woman completely).

Are the men who are with them gay, curious, or straight? Do you find them attractive, are you indifferent to them, or do you find them disgusting? Discuss.

I have my opinions on the topic but will post them later.

I don't think about men too much. I shop with girls, go on Girls' Nights Out, hang on the phone with them, dinner and lunch dates.

Some transgenders are so transformed that one can not tell that they were not female at birth. After hormonal changes, shoulders can decrease in bulk, muscles soften, and other real changes take place. I would consider a man dating such a female to be straight.

yesman065 · 02-11-2006, 08:42 AM

I'm not sure what I find them honestly - I don't give them much thought. I guess its a different strokes for different folks attitude. What does get me are the hardcore extremists on either end of the issue that try to force their beliefs of opinions on others. Just because they feel so strongly they try to push their position onto others.

Trilby · 02-11-2006, 06:32 PM

When I used to go to meetings, there was a dude there named Dan who s-l-o-w-l-y became a woman. We all knew him as a guy-for years!-and then, over two years he became Dana. It was v. strange to witness the metamorphosis. After he became a she he wanted to join the Women's Meetings and most of the chicks had a big problem with that. Maybe they were just jealous as he had very nice, manicured fingernails, but he also had, like, size 16 feet and that did NOT look good in pumps. Anyway, I don't know what happened to Dana. I always kind of felt weird around her because as a guy, he was a real guy's guy and was always talking about poon.

cowhead · 02-12-2006, 01:26 PM

I've always been curious about the whole situatiton. the thought process of 'being in the wrong body' I think it's real, I just wonder how it feels.. not fitting into your own skin would be an odd sensation.

LabRat · 04-14-2006, 08:27 AM

Been awhile since anyone was here. Either no one is gettin' any, or we're all getting so much, there's no time for talking

...

I got a brazilian wax last night, in preparation for our vacation to Vegas next week, sans kidlet.

OUCH

It wasn't as bad as those videos, but day-um.

The result is very nice, though. Alright, everyone back to your regularly scheduled shagging.

lookout123 · 04-14-2006, 09:31 AM

Labrat, I think the link must be broken - I can't seem to open the video of your waxing.

Rock Steady · 04-14-2006, 09:56 AM

Wow. Real people actually do this? Get brazilian waxed?

I guess I'm old fashioned but I'm used to seeing the carpet. It's mysterious; you can't see what's there; you don't really know what's under there until you feel it.

laebedahs · 04-14-2006, 10:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rock Steady

Wow. Real people actually do this? Get brazilian waxed?

I guess I'm old fashioned but I'm used to seeing the carpet. It's mysterious; you can't see what's there; you don't really know what's under there until you feel it.

I've never been waxed, but I prefer my women to have their floors bare, that way the cleaning equipment doesn't brush against carpet

And I don't like getting hair in my mouth.

lookout123 · 04-14-2006, 11:45 AM

i still prefer just a hint of a landing strip.

LabRat · 04-14-2006, 01:30 PM

The LAST thing I would do is record such an event. But a before and after pic might have been pretty funny. You have to let all the hair grow 2-3 weeks so there is enough for the wax to stick to to remove it. I haven't been that furry since I first got hair...blech. The actual waxing probably could have made AFHV. Every time she ripped off a strip, my whole body just jerked from the shock. My jaw actually started to cramp from forcing my mouth shut. I don't know how the poor woman kept a straight face. (I'm not completely bare, I did the landing strip thing.)

SteveDallas · 04-14-2006, 05:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LabRat

But a before and after pic might have been pretty funny.

Well I must say, it's not too late for the after.

LabRat · 04-25-2006, 08:54 AM

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Originally Posted by SteveDallas

Well I must say, it's not too late for the after.

BEFORE:

01-15-2006, 09:03 PM	#1
laebedahs Abecedarian Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 172	It's not new. I first had sex with another man when I was 15 but after that I was with my wife (speaking of which filed for divorce 2 days ago woohoo) for 6 years. Once we split up I started doing this again to see what it was like. A year into our marriage we started swinging and had a lot of plans, but she was insecure so a lot of things never happened. Being with and subsequently married to my wife taught me a lot of things: be honest with people, but above all, be honest with yourself. You're only delaying the inevitable if you don't. To answer your question, Sun Sparkz, all of my partners have been bisexual. Last edited by laebedahs; 01-15-2006 at 10:47 PM.

01-29-2006, 10:52 PM	#2
Rock Steady Day Tripper Join Date: May 2005 Location: Silicon Valley Posts: 784	That is interesting and thought provoking. It also seems like a lot of history to manage at this age. __________________

02-10-2006, 08:06 AM	#3
laebedahs Abecedarian Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 172	This thread needs some spark! The topic: Men who dress like women. Otherwise known as tranvestites (men who just wear women's clothing), shemales (men who look just like women but still have the "extra" stuff), transgenders (men who have made the transition from man to woman completely). Are the men who are with them gay, curious, or straight? Do you find them attractive, are you indifferent to them, or do you find them disgusting? Discuss. I have my opinions on the topic but will post them later. Last edited by laebedahs; 02-10-2006 at 08:16 AM.

02-12-2006, 01:26 PM	#7
cowhead halve your cake and eat it too. Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Georgia.. by way of Lawrence Kansas Posts: 1,359	I've always been curious about the whole situatiton. the thought process of 'being in the wrong body' I think it's real, I just wonder how it feels.. not fitting into your own skin would be an odd sensation. __________________ no my child.. this is not my desire..I'm digging for fire.

04-14-2006, 08:27 AM	#8
LabRat twatfaced two legged bumhole Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 3,143	Been awhile since anyone was here. Either no one is gettin' any, or we're all getting so much, there's no time for talking ... I got a brazilian wax last night, in preparation for our vacation to Vegas next week, sans kidlet. OUCH It wasn't as bad as those videos, but day-um. The result is very nice, though. Alright, everyone back to your regularly scheduled shagging. __________________ Strength does not come from how much weight you can lift, or how many miles you can run. It comes from knowing that you set a goal, and rose to the challenge. Strength comes from within.

02-11-2006, 08:42 AM	#5
yesman065 Banned - Self Imposed Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 1,847	I'm not sure what I find them honestly - I don't give them much thought. I guess its a different strokes for different folks attitude. What does get me are the hardcore extremists on either end of the issue that try to force their beliefs of opinions on others. Just because they feel so strongly they try to push their position onto others.

02-11-2006, 06:32 PM	#6
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	When I used to go to meetings, there was a dude there named Dan who s-l-o-w-l-y became a woman. We all knew him as a guy-for years!-and then, over two years he became Dana. It was v. strange to witness the metamorphosis. After he became a she he wanted to join the Women's Meetings and most of the chicks had a big problem with that. Maybe they were just jealous as he had very nice, manicured fingernails, but he also had, like, size 16 feet and that did NOT look good in pumps. Anyway, I don't know what happened to Dana. I always kind of felt weird around her because as a guy, he was a real guy's guy and was always talking about poon.

04-14-2006, 09:31 AM	#9
lookout123 changed his status to single Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Right behind you. No, the other side. Posts: 10,308	Labrat, I think the link must be broken - I can't seem to open the video of your waxing.

04-14-2006, 09:56 AM	#10
Rock Steady Day Tripper Join Date: May 2005 Location: Silicon Valley Posts: 784	Wow. Real people actually do this? Get brazilian waxed? I guess I'm old fashioned but I'm used to seeing the carpet. It's mysterious; you can't see what's there; you don't really know what's under there until you feel it. __________________

04-14-2006, 11:45 AM	#12
lookout123 changed his status to single Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Right behind you. No, the other side. Posts: 10,308	i still prefer just a hint of a landing strip.

04-14-2006, 01:30 PM	#13
LabRat twatfaced two legged bumhole Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 3,143	The LAST thing I would do is record such an event. But a before and after pic might have been pretty funny. You have to let all the hair grow 2-3 weeks so there is enough for the wax to stick to to remove it. I haven't been that furry since I first got hair...blech. The actual waxing probably could have made AFHV. Every time she ripped off a strip, my whole body just jerked from the shock. My jaw actually started to cramp from forcing my mouth shut. I don't know how the poor woman kept a straight face. (I'm not completely bare, I did the landing strip thing.) __________________ Strength does not come from how much weight you can lift, or how many miles you can run. It comes from knowing that you set a goal, and rose to the challenge. Strength comes from within.

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