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SquidGirl · 11-24-2008, 08:12 PM

Wow, interesting thread, good job starting it Trease and very brave for taking all the hits/comments/support, etc!

With children you focus on them so much you tend to forget yourself. By the time you remember yourself you are cleaning the cat box at 3am crying how you can't handle one more things shit as 'the boy' is asking to get a dog.

Treasenuak · 11-25-2008, 07:59 AM

I've seen more than one family fall into chaos because the parents are so wrapped up in the children they forget to take care of themselves both as individuals and as a couple. From the day I found out I was pregnant, I swore I would never let that happen; I've tried very hard to balance my own needs with those of my little girl. Granted, I'm not perfect, and I've made mistakes, but I think all in all we're both pretty contented girls, with all our needs provided for and most of our wants supplied as well... Especially her, the cute little gremlin!!

classicman · 11-25-2008, 09:50 AM

Excellent! Great attitude. Keep up the good work. I know its not easy by any stretch.

Cicero · 11-25-2008, 10:32 AM

That reminds me of me and my dog.

That's all the stuff I tell myself when I get separation anxiety when I go to work. I tell myself that I am addressing my needs and her needs doing it, and ultimately it is the best thing to do. When in all actuality I shouldn't have to be having that conversation with myself at all. It's best just not to have the separation anxiety in the first place. Usually the separation anxiety is the dog having it, not the owner.

Treasenuak · 11-25-2008, 01:05 PM

-grins- Now if only separation anxiety could be turned off via a simple little switch... leaving Kidlet with the babysitter would be SOOOOO much easier.

Treasenuak · 12-03-2008, 10:36 AM

-stretches and sighs- Well, life is getting INTERESTING! Been teaching Ted some simple rope ties... turns out he may be something of a closet rope Dom. FUN STUFF!! Especially since there's exposed rafters in the house. Now... once my knee heals we'll see how he does with a bit more challenging bondage... and perhaps I'll get to tie him up once or twice. Anyone know a good place in Central TN to buy riding crops? (for me, not him.... his pain tolerance is remarkably low)

TheMercenary · 12-03-2008, 06:40 PM

Any tack shop.

SteveDallas · 12-03-2008, 08:16 PM

Tack shop???? Talk about pain....

Big Sarge · 12-03-2008, 11:00 PM

You can find them at TSC or equine supply stories. There are several online sites where you can find quality crops designed for humans. They aren't as likely to cause serious damage.

Exposed beams? Have you considered a bondage swing. Oh, and when are you going to post some photos of your activities??

Treasenuak · 12-04-2008, 10:42 AM

Merc, Big Sarge... have I mentioned we live in the middle of nowhere? I'll pay as much in gas money driving to a tack shop or TSC as I would ordering them online. Blah. I should get his ex to send me one of her extras...

SD, you evil, evil man. Don't give me ideas!!

Oh, and Big Sarge... Bondage swing is a LOVELY idea, but we don't really have room for it. Unfortunately. And photos... -sighs- Well, you're the fifth person who's asked for pics, so I guess I HAVE to now, huh? All right, all right, I'll get on it.

Big Sarge · 12-04-2008, 04:35 PM

Treas - This crops designed for humans can be bought for less than $20 online. I'm also including a photo of a bondage swing with spreader bar that is easy to attach to an exposed beam. Quick and easy set up & take down

Big Sarge · 12-04-2008, 04:37 PM

Almost forgot, they also make vibrating crops that can give both pleasure or pain

Treasenuak · 12-08-2008, 10:37 AM

Ah, thank you, Big Sarge :-) Once again, you have been most helpful. I think I owe you dinner... unless you had another idea in mind?

Big Sarge · 12-08-2008, 02:23 PM

Hmmm? You don't know the thoughts racing through my mind

Treasenuak · 12-08-2008, 02:35 PM

Do tell...

11-25-2008, 09:50 AM	#93
classicman barely disguised asshole, keeper of all that is holy. Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 23,401	Excellent! Great attitude. Keep up the good work. I know its not easy by any stretch. __________________ "like strapping a pillow on a bull in a china shop" Bullitt

11-25-2008, 10:32 AM	#94
Cicero Looking forward to open mic night. Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: New Mexico Posts: 5,148	That reminds me of me and my dog. That's all the stuff I tell myself when I get separation anxiety when I go to work. I tell myself that I am addressing my needs and her needs doing it, and ultimately it is the best thing to do. When in all actuality I shouldn't have to be having that conversation with myself at all. It's best just not to have the separation anxiety in the first place. Usually the separation anxiety is the dog having it, not the owner. __________________ Show me a sane man, and I will cure him for you.- Carl Jung

12-03-2008, 06:40 PM	#97
TheMercenary “Hypocrisy: prejudice with a halo” Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Savannah, Georgia Posts: 21,393	Any tack shop. __________________ Anyone but the this most fuked up President in History in 2012!

12-03-2008, 08:16 PM	#98
SteveDallas Your Bartender Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Philly Burbs, PA Posts: 7,651	Tack shop???? Talk about pain.... Attached Images

12-03-2008, 11:00 PM	#99
Big Sarge Werepandas - lurking in your shadows Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: In the Deep South Posts: 3,408	You can find them at TSC or equine supply stories. There are several online sites where you can find quality crops designed for humans. They aren't as likely to cause serious damage. Exposed beams? Have you considered a bondage swing. Oh, and when are you going to post some photos of your activities?? __________________ Give a man a match, & he'll be warm for 20 seconds. But toss that man a white phosphorus grenade and he'll be warm for the rest of his life.

11-24-2008, 08:12 PM	#91
SquidGirl Colloquialist Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Cavern in Mount Pleasant, MI Posts: 79	Wow, interesting thread, good job starting it Trease and very brave for taking all the hits/comments/support, etc! With children you focus on them so much you tend to forget yourself. By the time you remember yourself you are cleaning the cat box at 3am crying how you can't handle one more things shit as 'the boy' is asking to get a dog.

11-25-2008, 07:59 AM	#92
Treasenuak Multiorgasmic and wrapped in plastic Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Central Tennessee Posts: 483	I've seen more than one family fall into chaos because the parents are so wrapped up in the children they forget to take care of themselves both as individuals and as a couple. From the day I found out I was pregnant, I swore I would never let that happen; I've tried very hard to balance my own needs with those of my little girl. Granted, I'm not perfect, and I've made mistakes, but I think all in all we're both pretty contented girls, with all our needs provided for and most of our wants supplied as well... Especially her, the cute little gremlin!!

11-25-2008, 01:05 PM	#95
Treasenuak Multiorgasmic and wrapped in plastic Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Central Tennessee Posts: 483	-grins- Now if only separation anxiety could be turned off via a simple little switch... leaving Kidlet with the babysitter would be SOOOOO much easier.

12-03-2008, 10:36 AM	#96
Treasenuak Multiorgasmic and wrapped in plastic Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Central Tennessee Posts: 483	-stretches and sighs- Well, life is getting INTERESTING! Been teaching Ted some simple rope ties... turns out he may be something of a closet rope Dom. FUN STUFF!! Especially since there's exposed rafters in the house. Now... once my knee heals we'll see how he does with a bit more challenging bondage... and perhaps I'll get to tie him up once or twice. Anyone know a good place in Central TN to buy riding crops? (for me, not him.... his pain tolerance is remarkably low)

12-04-2008, 10:42 AM	#100
Treasenuak Multiorgasmic and wrapped in plastic Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Central Tennessee Posts: 483	Merc, Big Sarge... have I mentioned we live in the middle of nowhere? I'll pay as much in gas money driving to a tack shop or TSC as I would ordering them online. Blah. I should get his ex to send me one of her extras... SD, you evil, evil man. Don't give me ideas!! Oh, and Big Sarge... Bondage swing is a LOVELY idea, but we don't really have room for it. Unfortunately. And photos... -sighs- Well, you're the fifth person who's asked for pics, so I guess I HAVE to now, huh? All right, all right, I'll get on it.

12-04-2008, 04:35 PM	#101
Big Sarge Werepandas - lurking in your shadows Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: In the Deep South Posts: 3,408	Treas - This crops designed for humans can be bought for less than $20 online. I'm also including a photo of a bondage swing with spreader bar that is easy to attach to an exposed beam. Quick and easy set up & take down Attached Images __________________ Give a man a match, & he'll be warm for 20 seconds. But toss that man a white phosphorus grenade and he'll be warm for the rest of his life.

12-04-2008, 04:37 PM	#102
Big Sarge Werepandas - lurking in your shadows Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: In the Deep South Posts: 3,408	Almost forgot, they also make vibrating crops that can give both pleasure or pain __________________ Give a man a match, & he'll be warm for 20 seconds. But toss that man a white phosphorus grenade and he'll be warm for the rest of his life.

12-08-2008, 10:37 AM	#103
Treasenuak Multiorgasmic and wrapped in plastic Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Central Tennessee Posts: 483	Ah, thank you, Big Sarge :-) Once again, you have been most helpful. I think I owe you dinner... unless you had another idea in mind?

12-08-2008, 02:23 PM	#104
Big Sarge Werepandas - lurking in your shadows Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: In the Deep South Posts: 3,408	Hmmm? You don't know the thoughts racing through my mind

12-08-2008, 02:35 PM	#105
Treasenuak Multiorgasmic and wrapped in plastic Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Central Tennessee Posts: 483	Do tell...

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