Celebacy or Hot Meaningless Sex

thrillhouse · 03-23-2006, 05:00 PM

please discuss. i need voices outside of my head for perspective.

thrillhouse · 03-23-2006, 05:04 PM

somethin' has gotta give. i can't even spell celibacy. at first, it looked like celery. i thought, okay. posted my thread/poll. then, i realized. . . not okay. just to clarify. . . this thread is not about being vegetarian.

Trilby · 03-23-2006, 05:31 PM

If my choices are celibacy or hot, meaningless sex, I'm going with the sex. Sex is good for you, good for your brain, good for your body and good for your mood. It's positively engergizing!

03-23-2006, 05:41 PM

I'll take celibacy. I tried doing the hot, meaningless sex thing and ended up falling in love with the ax murderer. BLECH! Next time around, I want to fall for a man's brain, not his balls. But that's just my own sadder but wiser experience.

thrillhouse · 03-23-2006, 06:17 PM

ladies, i appreciate both points of view. not only appreciate, but i feel exactely the way you both do.

that's the dilemma.

jojo · 03-23-2006, 07:27 PM

i would guess that after a few encounters, the sex would become much less hot if there was no meaning. as humans we need connection, not just physically but emotionally. but on the other hand, lack of human touch is dangerous emotionally, too. so there you have it: i don't know.

jojo · 03-23-2006, 07:33 PM

ok, i've thought about it some more, go for the celibacy because you don't feel dirty afterwords and you don't have to hide that goofy smile all day!

xoxoxoBruce · 03-23-2006, 07:46 PM

I like goofy smiles.

capnhowdy · 03-23-2006, 08:01 PM

I couldn't vote. I was torn. Why not have both?

Kagen4o4 · 03-23-2006, 08:02 PM

hot meaningless sex. i have friends to have meaningful relationships with without sex.
if i wasnt having sex the only thing i would be able to think about would be having hot sex whether it was meaningful or not.

jojo · 03-23-2006, 08:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce

I like goofy smiles.

was that flirting a little with me? i changed my mind again SEX SEX -- I MEANT TO SAY SEX!

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Clodfobble · 03-23-2006, 10:08 PM

If it's definitely hot meaningless sex, then I vote for the sex. But to me, meaningless sex has almost (note I said almost) always been the exact opposite of hot.

Hubris Boy · 03-23-2006, 11:06 PM

<p>Celibacy. Without a doubt. It's not nearly as much fun, sure, but it's a lot cheaper and a LOT less complicated.<br>
Did anybody notice that "celibate" is on the same page as "cellar" in the dictionary? Coincidence? Maybe. Or maybe not...</p>

thrillhouse · 03-23-2006, 11:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hubris Boy

Did anybody notice that "celibate" is on the same page as "cellar" in the dictionary? Coincidence? Maybe. Or maybe not...

ye gads boy!. . . . am i to be neutered as penance for posting here?

Kagen4o4 · 03-23-2006, 11:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by thrillhouse

ye gads boy!. . . . am i to be neutered as penance for posting here?

well...yes.

03-23-2006, 05:00 PM	#1
thrillhouse spoonful of bologna Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: salvation holdout central Posts: 333	Celebacy or Hot Meaningless Sex please discuss. i need voices outside of my head for perspective. __________________ i'm drinking stars

03-23-2006, 05:04 PM	#2
thrillhouse spoonful of bologna Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: salvation holdout central Posts: 333	somethin' has gotta give. i can't even spell celibacy. at first, it looked like celery. i thought, okay. posted my thread/poll. then, i realized. . . not okay. just to clarify. . . this thread is not about being vegetarian. __________________ i'm drinking stars

03-23-2006, 05:31 PM	#3
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	If my choices are celibacy or hot, meaningless sex, I'm going with the sex. Sex is good for you, good for your brain, good for your body and good for your mood. It's positively engergizing! __________________ In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic. "Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her. —James Barrie Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum

03-23-2006, 06:17 PM	#5
thrillhouse spoonful of bologna Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: salvation holdout central Posts: 333	ladies, i appreciate both points of view. not only appreciate, but i feel exactely the way you both do. that's the dilemma. __________________ i'm drinking stars

03-23-2006, 07:46 PM	#8
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	I like goofy smiles. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

View Poll Results: Physical Intimacy
Celibacy	10	47.62%
Hot Meaningless Sex	11	52.38%
Voters: 21. You may not vote on this poll

03-23-2006, 05:41 PM	#4
marichiko Guest Posts: n/a	I'll take celibacy. I tried doing the hot, meaningless sex thing and ended up falling in love with the ax murderer. BLECH! Next time around, I want to fall for a man's brain, not his balls. But that's just my own sadder but wiser experience.

03-23-2006, 07:27 PM	#6
jojo is anyone home? Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: state of denial Posts: 42	i would guess that after a few encounters, the sex would become much less hot if there was no meaning. as humans we need connection, not just physically but emotionally. but on the other hand, lack of human touch is dangerous emotionally, too. so there you have it: i don't know.

03-23-2006, 07:33 PM	#7
jojo is anyone home? Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: state of denial Posts: 42	ok, i've thought about it some more, go for the celibacy because you don't feel dirty afterwords and you don't have to hide that goofy smile all day!

03-23-2006, 08:01 PM	#9
capnhowdy Blatantly Homosapien Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 6,200	I couldn't vote. I was torn. Why not have both? __________________ Please type slowly. I can't read very fast............... and no holy water, please.

03-23-2006, 08:02 PM	#10
Kagen4o4 The Sheriff of Nothingland Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Melbourne, Aus Posts: 1,794	hot meaningless sex. i have friends to have meaningful relationships with without sex. if i wasnt having sex the only thing i would be able to think about would be having hot sex whether it was meaningful or not. __________________ something we both can enjoy??

03-23-2006, 10:08 PM	#12
Clodfobble UNDER CONDITIONAL MITIGATION Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 20,012	If it's definitely hot meaningless sex, then I vote for the sex. But to me, meaningless sex has almost (note I said almost) always been the exact opposite of hot.

03-23-2006, 11:06 PM	#13
Hubris Boy Keymaster of Gozer Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Patapsco Drainage Basin Posts: 471	<p>Celibacy. Without a doubt. It's not nearly as much fun, sure, but it's a lot cheaper and a LOT less complicated.<br> Did anybody notice that "celibate" is on the same page as "cellar" in the dictionary? Coincidence? Maybe. Or maybe not...</p>

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