The Sex Thread - Page 25

Clodfobble · 07-13-2005, 03:12 PM

It hasn't been THAT long, Brianna, didn't you break up with that married guy just a couple of months ago?

Think about it this way: you know how food tastes so much better to you now? A future relationship will be so much better because of the changes in your life too. Each day that passes puts you in a better position to receive it when the opportunity arises.

lookout123 · 07-13-2005, 03:18 PM

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puts you in a better position to receive it when the opportunity arises.

you said "arises".

huhhuh huh uh huhhuh

Trilby · 07-13-2005, 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Clodfobble

It hasn't been THAT long, Brianna, didn't you break up with that married guy just a couple of months ago?

Yes, true, true. Maybe it just seems that long.

perth · 07-13-2005, 05:04 PM

I thought that for a while after my divorce. Thankfully I met a girl kind enough to let me sleep with her.

lookout123 · 07-13-2005, 05:09 PM

i thought thte same thing for a while after my divorce. then when i did start dating i realized how much better the sex was with someone who wasn't trying to make me feel low all the time.

plthijinx · 07-13-2005, 05:21 PM

heh. i let the g/f finally go last week (long story of her drunken abuses towards me) and have already scored! er, actually, she picked ME up!! yep. older women know what they want.

Brett's Honey · 07-13-2005, 07:17 PM

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Brianna - Yes, true, true. Maybe it just seems that long.

If you're not ready for a relationship, look around for a fuckbuddy. (Granted, I WAS barely over 19 when I had that type of "relationship" but it worked and worked verrry well!)

kerosene · 07-13-2005, 09:21 PM

I think I let go of the weird repressed sexuality/"god is going to send me to hell with the voice of my dad" syndrome a long time ago. Though the beliefs my family had while I was growing up included the idea that sex before marriage was bad and I had to "cover my eyes" for the sex scenes in movies, my mom was kind of open and sort of realized when I was in high school that she wasn't going to be able to stop me if I wanted to do it. Her forbidding me to even think about it would have bred even more angst and hostility within my family...we had more than enough at that age.

Dakota and I have been living together for a while now, so the actual mechanics of the relationship haven't changed much at all. Now, it's just that others recognize our relationship differently and we had that chance to make the vows to each other and make it "official". I am happy to be married to him...don't get me wrong. We might never have had the ceremony at all if it weren't for our kids and families...well, we would have had the ceremony but it might not have been accompanied by a piece of paper and a shorter last name for me. Those things weren't terribly important to us. We knew what we felt and feel and we wouldn't need those things. It has been good for the kids, though...helps them to adjust and make sense of things.

I better not never have sex again! (double negative was intentional)

Sun_Sparkz · 07-13-2005, 09:43 PM

so Case do you have pics of your ceremony yet?

I love wedding photos and stories.. I probably have a formal ceremony personally cuz i want to invent my own "thing" for binding with my partner but its always interesting hearing about what others have done to make themselves "officially" unite.

i dont think that marriage is what kills sex, i think if you have survived living together for a long time, marraige wont chage anything. If sex is going to fail, i reckon it'll fail in the first year of living together. IMO.

Clodfobble · 07-13-2005, 09:50 PM

Don't forget in your seventh year of living together, when you both get fat. It can definitely fail then too.

xoxoxoBruce · 07-14-2005, 01:27 AM

Todays news said 8 years is average now.

LabRat · 07-14-2005, 08:50 AM

average for what? divorce? getting fat? end of sex? ???

Believe me, I got over my subconsious (sp) worries. I told my husband about it, we had a good laugh, and moved on. Now we joke about it sometimes, like when we try something new/off the wall. "What do you think your dad would have thought of that??" Plus, I told myself, he can only 'see' me when I think about him and I want him to, like during a race, or when I'm playing with my daughter. I know, I'm wacko, but at least I know it

Articrono · 07-14-2005, 10:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Brianna

.... I am ... good at aural sex.

Really small penises... Or really big ears? I'm not sure I want to know.

plthijinx · 07-14-2005, 11:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Articrono

Really small penises... Or really big ears? I'm not sure I want to know.

good one!

when i was with my ex for five years before we got married then we were together for another four. looking back at pictures from then, i can see the extra 10 or 15 pounds i would carry. sex, forget it. that fizzled after the first year of marriage.

cowhead · 07-14-2005, 11:28 AM

it's been a while here in cowheadtown.. however, it's mostly because I don't want to get emotionally involved with anyone.. and yeah, there is of course sex without emotion, but... I haven't been a fan of that in a while... and Bri.. you will have sex again, I assure you.

07-13-2005, 05:09 PM	#365
lookout123 changed his status to single Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Right behind you. No, the other side. Posts: 10,308	i thought thte same thing for a while after my divorce. then when i did start dating i realized how much better the sex was with someone who wasn't trying to make me feel low all the time. __________________ Getting knocked down is no sin, it's not getting back up that's the sin

07-13-2005, 05:21 PM	#366
plthijinx Master Dwellar Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 4,197	heh. i let the g/f finally go last week (long story of her drunken abuses towards me) and have already scored! er, actually, she picked ME up!! yep. older women know what they want. __________________ For your dreams to come true, you must first have a dream.

07-13-2005, 09:43 PM	#369
Sun_Sparkz Has Body Temperature Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: I come from a land downunder Posts: 1,105	so Case do you have pics of your ceremony yet? I love wedding photos and stories.. I probably have a formal ceremony personally cuz i want to invent my own "thing" for binding with my partner but its always interesting hearing about what others have done to make themselves "officially" unite. i dont think that marriage is what kills sex, i think if you have survived living together for a long time, marraige wont chage anything. If sex is going to fail, i reckon it'll fail in the first year of living together. IMO. __________________ We'll never be as young as we are right now Last edited by Sun_Sparkz; 07-13-2005 at 09:45 PM.

07-14-2005, 01:27 AM	#371
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	Todays news said 8 years is average now. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

07-14-2005, 08:50 AM	#372
LabRat twatfaced two legged bumhole Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 3,143	average for what? divorce? getting fat? end of sex? ??? Believe me, I got over my subconsious (sp) worries. I told my husband about it, we had a good laugh, and moved on. Now we joke about it sometimes, like when we try something new/off the wall. "What do you think your dad would have thought of that??" Plus, I told myself, he can only 'see' me when I think about him and I want him to, like during a race, or when I'm playing with my daughter. I know, I'm wacko, but at least I know it __________________ Strength does not come from how much weight you can lift, or how many miles you can run. It comes from knowing that you set a goal, and rose to the challenge. Strength comes from within.

07-13-2005, 03:12 PM	#361
Clodfobble UNDER CONDITIONAL MITIGATION Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 20,012	It hasn't been THAT long, Brianna, didn't you break up with that married guy just a couple of months ago? Think about it this way: you know how food tastes so much better to you now? A future relationship will be so much better because of the changes in your life too. Each day that passes puts you in a better position to receive it when the opportunity arises.

07-13-2005, 05:04 PM	#364
perth Strong Silent Type Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Fort Collins, CO Posts: 1,949	I thought that for a while after my divorce. Thankfully I met a girl kind enough to let me sleep with her.

07-13-2005, 09:21 PM	#368
kerosene Touring the facilities Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: The plains of Colorado Posts: 3,476	I think I let go of the weird repressed sexuality/"god is going to send me to hell with the voice of my dad" syndrome a long time ago. Though the beliefs my family had while I was growing up included the idea that sex before marriage was bad and I had to "cover my eyes" for the sex scenes in movies, my mom was kind of open and sort of realized when I was in high school that she wasn't going to be able to stop me if I wanted to do it. Her forbidding me to even think about it would have bred even more angst and hostility within my family...we had more than enough at that age. Dakota and I have been living together for a while now, so the actual mechanics of the relationship haven't changed much at all. Now, it's just that others recognize our relationship differently and we had that chance to make the vows to each other and make it "official". I am happy to be married to him...don't get me wrong. We might never have had the ceremony at all if it weren't for our kids and families...well, we would have had the ceremony but it might not have been accompanied by a piece of paper and a shorter last name for me. Those things weren't terribly important to us. We knew what we felt and feel and we wouldn't need those things. It has been good for the kids, though...helps them to adjust and make sense of things. I better not never have sex again! (double negative was intentional)

07-13-2005, 09:50 PM	#370
Clodfobble UNDER CONDITIONAL MITIGATION Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 20,012	Don't forget in your seventh year of living together, when you both get fat. It can definitely fail then too.

07-14-2005, 11:28 AM	#375
cowhead halve your cake and eat it too. Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Georgia.. by way of Lawrence Kansas Posts: 1,359	it's been a while here in cowheadtown.. however, it's mostly because I don't want to get emotionally involved with anyone.. and yeah, there is of course sex without emotion, but... I haven't been a fan of that in a while... and Bri.. you will have sex again, I assure you. __________________ no my child.. this is not my desire..I'm digging for fire.

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