Merry F'in Christmas - I want a divorce.

Undertoad · 12-18-2005, 06:04 AM

A marvelous hint someone gave to me at about this point: if some aspect seems too overwhemling to consider, just *don't* consider it. The financial? The offspring? The future lifestyle? The fine details can wait until there's less to think about.

richlevy · 12-18-2005, 12:20 PM

Not to be too trite, but to paraphrase the Graduate.

Three words. Just three words. Divorced soccer moms.

xoxoxoBruce · 12-18-2005, 12:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Undertoad

A marvelous hint someone gave to me at about this point: if some aspect seems too overwhemling to consider, just *don't* consider it. The financial? The offspring? The future lifestyle? The fine details can wait until there's less to think about.

Excellent point!

Considering all the variables, planning details before they come up is just a waste of time and energy. Decide and stick to, principles and values that are important to you and the details will work themselves out.

lookout123 · 12-18-2005, 11:09 PM

it is very difficult to operate normally with the 1000 lb elephant in the room. last night was great fun, hanging out, BSing, etc. we woke up and all was wellonlu fun family functions in the morning before church. church was great. we finally get back home and the little one is down for a nap.

she was reading mail and i came up from behind and hugged her tightly. one thing led to another and we ended up having th best sex we've had in quite a while.

she's been more friendly but distant since then. it is a roll of the dice to see what comes tomorrow.

12-19-2005, 12:36 AM

It sounds very crazy making and difficult, Lookout. Sorry she is putting you through this.

12-18-2005, 12:20 PM	#2
richlevy King Of Wishful Thinking Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Philadelphia Suburbs Posts: 6,669	Not to be too trite, but to paraphrase the Graduate. Three words. Just three words. Divorced soccer moms. __________________ Exercise your rights and remember your obligations - VOTE! I have always believed that hope is that stubborn thing inside us that insists, despite all the evidence to the contrary, that something better awaits us so long as we have the courage to keep reaching, to keep working, to keep fighting. -- Barack Hussein Obama

12-18-2005, 06:04 AM	#1
Undertoad Radical Centrist Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cottage of Prussia Posts: 31,423	A marvelous hint someone gave to me at about this point: if some aspect seems too overwhemling to consider, just don't consider it. The financial? The offspring? The future lifestyle? The fine details can wait until there's less to think about.

12-18-2005, 11:09 PM	#4
lookout123 changed his status to single Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Right behind you. No, the other side. Posts: 10,308	it is very difficult to operate normally with the 1000 lb elephant in the room. last night was great fun, hanging out, BSing, etc. we woke up and all was wellonlu fun family functions in the morning before church. church was great. we finally get back home and the little one is down for a nap. she was reading mail and i came up from behind and hugged her tightly. one thing led to another and we ended up having th best sex we've had in quite a while. she's been more friendly but distant since then. it is a roll of the dice to see what comes tomorrow.

12-19-2005, 12:36 AM	#5
marichiko Guest Posts: n/a	It sounds very crazy making and difficult, Lookout. Sorry she is putting you through this.

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