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Trilby · 05-03-2006, 09:30 AM

Oh, I know, I know...I've been licking my wounds all night--and, this morning. I don't know who I hate more-him or me. The urge to fuck up his life is raising it's ugly head. I want to call him and tell him off. Not that he'd care.

mrnoodle · 05-03-2006, 10:02 AM

Dude. get over it. You can't fuck up his life. There's nothing you could do that would remotely affect him one way or the other (there's assault and murder, but that's counterproductive). Make him as much of a non-entity in your mind as you are in his. Rejoin humanity and stop wallowing in dog shit.

You're afraid of feeling nothing, aren't you? Well, you're going to have to, at least for awhile. Suck it up, do it. End of story.

I'm quickly running out of empathy here. How many times can someone walk up to you and say "Look, I hit myself in the head with a hammer" and you stop feeling sorry for them?

end. it.

Stormieweather · 05-03-2006, 11:05 AM

I don't know you Brianna (nice name

, it is also my daughter's), so I can't address your situation directly, but I do know about not-so-healthy relationships.

Having toxic people in your life will make you sick (mentally, emotionally and sometimes physically). You can also get addicted to the roller coaster of extremes that a relationship with a toxic person often involves. But seriously, the nice, gentle ups and downs of a healthy relationship are SO much better than the wild ride that comes with toxic people. It takes some getting used to, the lack of drama...but it makes for a much happier life, overall.

Oh, and those toxic people are taking up space in our lives that decent people could be filling. Get them out! Let them sucker some other poor soul.

Stormie
<who got off the roller coaster a while back>

wolf · 05-03-2006, 01:05 PM

I think the time has come to start teaching your spam catcher to put all of his messages in the trash.

thrillhouse · 05-03-2006, 01:15 PM

nope.

do what i did. . . . . BLOCK his email address from yours. do.it.now.

Rock Steady · 05-03-2006, 03:03 PM

Yes. Block/Spamize his email address right away. PM me for help doing this.

With phone, caller id from London, don't answer. If he gets thru, answer like a telemarketing call, "not interested." and hang up. If this is hard, then change your phone number.

It's like alcohol, you won't drink a quart if you don't take the first drink. It's all about the first drink.

05-03-2006, 09:30 AM	#136
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	Oh, I know, I know...I've been licking my wounds all night--and, this morning. I don't know who I hate more-him or me. The urge to fuck up his life is raising it's ugly head. I want to call him and tell him off. Not that he'd care. __________________ In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic. "Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her. —James Barrie Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum

05-03-2006, 10:02 AM	#137
mrnoodle bent Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: under the weather Posts: 2,656	Dude. get over it. You can't fuck up his life. There's nothing you could do that would remotely affect him one way or the other (there's assault and murder, but that's counterproductive). Make him as much of a non-entity in your mind as you are in his. Rejoin humanity and stop wallowing in dog shit. You're afraid of feeling nothing, aren't you? Well, you're going to have to, at least for awhile. Suck it up, do it. End of story. I'm quickly running out of empathy here. How many times can someone walk up to you and say "Look, I hit myself in the head with a hammer" and you stop feeling sorry for them? end. it. __________________ Sìn a nall na cuaranan sin. -- Cha mhór is fheairrde thu iad, tha iad coltach ri cat air a dhathadh

05-03-2006, 01:05 PM	#139
wolf lobber of scimitars Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Phila Burbs Posts: 20,774	I think the time has come to start teaching your spam catcher to put all of his messages in the trash. __________________ wolf eht htiw og "Conspiracies are the norm, not the exception." --G. Edward Griffin The Creature from Jekyll Island High Priestess of the Church of the Whale Penis

05-03-2006, 01:15 PM	#140
thrillhouse spoonful of bologna Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: salvation holdout central Posts: 333	nope. do what i did. . . . . BLOCK his email address from yours. do.it.now. __________________ i'm drinking stars

05-03-2006, 03:03 PM	#141
Rock Steady Day Tripper Join Date: May 2005 Location: Silicon Valley Posts: 784	Yes. Block/Spamize his email address right away. PM me for help doing this. With phone, caller id from London, don't answer. If he gets thru, answer like a telemarketing call, "not interested." and hang up. If this is hard, then change your phone number. It's like alcohol, you won't drink a quart if you don't take the first drink. It's all about the first drink. __________________

05-03-2006, 11:05 AM	#138
Stormieweather Wearing her bitch boots Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Floriduh Posts: 1,181	I don't know you Brianna (nice name , it is also my daughter's), so I can't address your situation directly, but I do know about not-so-healthy relationships. Having toxic people in your life will make you sick (mentally, emotionally and sometimes physically). You can also get addicted to the roller coaster of extremes that a relationship with a toxic person often involves. But seriously, the nice, gentle ups and downs of a healthy relationship are SO much better than the wild ride that comes with toxic people. It takes some getting used to, the lack of drama...but it makes for a much happier life, overall. Oh, and those toxic people are taking up space in our lives that decent people could be filling. Get them out! Let them sucker some other poor soul. Stormie <who got off the roller coaster a while back>

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