Merry F'in Christmas - I want a divorce. - Page 30

Griff · 08-06-2006, 05:53 AM

Oh man...

Elspode · 08-06-2006, 08:00 AM

From what you've said, this does not sound like a woman who needs to be reproducing just now.

Sorry, man. This must hurt like hell.

Clodfobble · 08-06-2006, 02:15 PM

I'm sorry, lookout. At least you heard through the grapevine and not because she came to you asking for help/emotional support/money/more divorce concessions...

wolf · 08-06-2006, 03:16 PM

Is she naming you as the father? Is there even a possibility that she could? (yes, I could read back over the prior 30 pages and do some math on my own)

Don't admit paternity until there is a confirmatory test. In some jurisdictions, even when DNA testing shows that the named father on the birth certificate is not the father, that man remains financially responsible for the child.

Clodfobble · 08-06-2006, 03:26 PM

In some jurisfictions, being married to the woman is de facto paternity even if there is no name on the certificate, even if later tests prove it is not the husband's. Do you know who the father supposedly is?

lookout123 · 08-06-2006, 04:36 PM

i am definitely not the father. (if this is true) the math would be off by more than 6 weeks. i would assume that the father is the "friend" who isn't a boyfriend. but he has been conspicuously absent for several weeks now.

i can't come out and ask her about it yet, because the person who told me really shouldn't have opened their mouth... but i'm not going to betray her trust, especially considering i may need her insider's info sometime in the future.

xoxoxoBruce · 08-06-2006, 06:13 PM

Should have gone to Don Corleone, straight away.

bluecuracao · 08-06-2006, 06:21 PM

Think there's a chance she's not really pregnant? Wouldn't that be great?

footfootfoot · 08-06-2006, 10:14 PM

shit

zippyt · 08-06-2006, 11:19 PM

snakes DO breed !!

Sun_Sparkz · 08-07-2006, 01:36 AM

your poor son, he will be so confused by this, as if he isnt going through enough right now.

i guess in a way though lookout; this is kind of a tie breaker for you.. not that everything else hasnt been.. but this is it. no turning back now; for either of you.

yesman065 · 08-07-2006, 08:01 AM

OMG Lookout - that totally sux! Talk to your lawyer, if you haven't already, and see what you can do to protect you & lil lookout legally and financially. This "woman" is absolutely crazy! I am so sorry.

Iggy · 08-12-2006, 01:22 PM

Oh man... that is awful. I have been following this from the beginning, but I just never could bring myself to post. After all, I have never been married or had kids so it is hard for me to understand. But I can see how that would hurt and make things really difficult. For the sake of you and lil lookout, I hope this isn't true. But if it is, I am so sorry for you two and I wish you all the best. Many good vibes are coming your way from here in Kansas.

yesman065 · 10-04-2006, 03:23 PM

Lookout - long time no hear/here??? Whats goin on?

Brett's Honey · 10-05-2006, 07:30 PM

I second that....been wondering here too.....hope everything's going well for you......

08-06-2006, 05:53 AM	#436
Griff still says videotape Join Date: Feb 2001 Posts: 26,813	Oh man... __________________ If you would only recognize that life is hard, things would be so much easier for you. - Louis D. Brandeis

08-06-2006, 08:00 AM	#437
Elspode When Do I Get Virtual Unreality? Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Raytown, Missouri Posts: 12,719	From what you've said, this does not sound like a woman who needs to be reproducing just now. Sorry, man. This must hurt like hell. __________________ "To those of you who are wearing ties, I think my dad would appreciate it if you took them off." - Robert Moog

08-06-2006, 03:16 PM	#439
wolf lobber of scimitars Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Phila Burbs Posts: 20,774	Is she naming you as the father? Is there even a possibility that she could? (yes, I could read back over the prior 30 pages and do some math on my own) Don't admit paternity until there is a confirmatory test. In some jurisdictions, even when DNA testing shows that the named father on the birth certificate is not the father, that man remains financially responsible for the child. __________________ wolf eht htiw og "Conspiracies are the norm, not the exception." --G. Edward Griffin The Creature from Jekyll Island High Priestess of the Church of the Whale Penis

08-06-2006, 04:36 PM	#441
lookout123 changed his status to single Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Right behind you. No, the other side. Posts: 10,308	i am definitely not the father. (if this is true) the math would be off by more than 6 weeks. i would assume that the father is the "friend" who isn't a boyfriend. but he has been conspicuously absent for several weeks now. i can't come out and ask her about it yet, because the person who told me really shouldn't have opened their mouth... but i'm not going to betray her trust, especially considering i may need her insider's info sometime in the future. __________________ Getting knocked down is no sin, it's not getting back up that's the sin

08-06-2006, 06:13 PM	#442
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	Should have gone to Don Corleone, straight away. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

08-06-2006, 02:15 PM	#438
Clodfobble UNDER CONDITIONAL MITIGATION Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 20,012	I'm sorry, lookout. At least you heard through the grapevine and not because she came to you asking for help/emotional support/money/more divorce concessions...

08-06-2006, 03:26 PM	#440
Clodfobble UNDER CONDITIONAL MITIGATION Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 20,012	In some jurisfictions, being married to the woman is de facto paternity even if there is no name on the certificate, even if later tests prove it is not the husband's. Do you know who the father supposedly is?

08-06-2006, 06:21 PM	#443
bluecuracao in a mood, not cupcake Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Philadelphia Posts: 3,034	Think there's a chance she's not really pregnant? Wouldn't that be great?

08-06-2006, 10:14 PM	#444
footfootfoot To shreds, you say? Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: in the house and on the street-how many, many feet we meet! Posts: 18,449	shit __________________ The internet is a hateful stew of vomit you can never take completely seriously. - Her Fobs

08-06-2006, 11:19 PM	#445
zippyt LONG LIVE KING ZIPPY! per Feetz Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Arkansas Posts: 7,661	snakes DO breed !! __________________ "Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get. " Brother Dave Gardner

08-07-2006, 01:36 AM	#446
Sun_Sparkz Has Body Temperature Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: I come from a land downunder Posts: 1,105	your poor son, he will be so confused by this, as if he isnt going through enough right now. i guess in a way though lookout; this is kind of a tie breaker for you.. not that everything else hasnt been.. but this is it. no turning back now; for either of you. __________________ We'll never be as young as we are right now

08-07-2006, 08:01 AM	#447
yesman065 Banned - Self Imposed Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 1,847	OMG Lookout - that totally sux! Talk to your lawyer, if you haven't already, and see what you can do to protect you & lil lookout legally and financially. This "woman" is absolutely crazy! I am so sorry.

08-12-2006, 01:22 PM	#448
Iggy Back and ready to tart up the place Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Kansas Posts: 850	Oh man... that is awful. I have been following this from the beginning, but I just never could bring myself to post. After all, I have never been married or had kids so it is hard for me to understand. But I can see how that would hurt and make things really difficult. For the sake of you and lil lookout, I hope this isn't true. But if it is, I am so sorry for you two and I wish you all the best. Many good vibes are coming your way from here in Kansas.

10-04-2006, 03:23 PM	#449
yesman065 Banned - Self Imposed Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 1,847	Lookout - long time no hear/here??? Whats goin on?

10-05-2006, 07:30 PM	#450
Brett's Honey whatever Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 308	I second that....been wondering here too.....hope everything's going well for you......

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