Why Can't Men Say the Things We Women Need to Hear?

[BlacKat1980]

Originally Posted by yesman065

We are being almost anal about making sure there are no unspoken issues that could cause problems later on and it seems to working magnificently.

My partner (of one year) and I are pretty much the same, in our whole time together (living together almost the full year) we have only had one arguement and as we do about most issues, we laughed about it the next day too. What's the point in being angry with someone you love and spend bulk time with? It's a waste of precious moments together that could be happy times. I believe that you shouldn't leave home or go to bed angry or upset - what happens if one of you never wake up or die on your way to work? There's no second chance to say "I'm sorry and love you"

Someone once said "It's not the number of breaths you take, it's the number of moments that take your breath away that matter.

That's my worth...(okay so it's really been my $2 worth but anyway....