Friends of the Opposite Sex - Page 4

lumberjim · 01-11-2007, 07:10 PM

but you said you thought it was the same. you changed your mind?

Aliantha · 01-11-2007, 07:23 PM

OK...to some people cheating physically is the be all and end all right? What I'm saying is that cheating mentally can be just as bad in some peoples' books...or maybe even worse.

Me personally, I think mental cheating is worse, but then cheating physically can be very hurtful to live with too, so I guess that's why some people might think physical is worse. Hence, both can have similar meanings to different people.

My point was that you can't say that cheating mentally is less hurtful. That's all.

yesman065 · 01-12-2007, 09:33 AM

Having been cheated on (physically) by my "soon-to-be-ex" I believe that the pain caused by the physical is directly related to the mental. It crushed me and all I worked so hard for. I thought that she appreciated me for working multiple jobs so that she could stay home and be with the kids and thats how I was betrayed! Thats the word - betrayal. I think the key here was that she basically betrayed me and when she was the only person that I could count on 100% once thats gone - its VERY difficult to get back.

I never looked at her the same and I strongly feel that is the main reasoon we split up. Even though it took years for it to happen, I tried for a long time to get passed it, but was unable. Maybe I'm not as good a man as I thought. I dunno.

lumberjim · 01-16-2007, 06:43 PM

sure sounded pissed.

Madman · 01-16-2007, 07:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lumberjim

sure sounded pissed.

I always sound pissed. Just ask my friends.

Note: A new record for me... two posts in one day!

01-11-2007, 07:10 PM	#1
lumberjim I can hear my ears Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 25,571	but you said you thought it was the same. you changed your mind? __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality Embrace this moment, remember We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion ~MJKeenan

01-11-2007, 07:23 PM	#2
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	OK...to some people cheating physically is the be all and end all right? What I'm saying is that cheating mentally can be just as bad in some peoples' books...or maybe even worse. Me personally, I think mental cheating is worse, but then cheating physically can be very hurtful to live with too, so I guess that's why some people might think physical is worse. Hence, both can have similar meanings to different people. My point was that you can't say that cheating mentally is less hurtful. That's all. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

01-16-2007, 06:43 PM	#4
lumberjim I can hear my ears Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 25,571	sure sounded pissed. __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality Embrace this moment, remember We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion ~MJKeenan

01-12-2007, 09:33 AM	#3
yesman065 Banned - Self Imposed Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 1,847	Having been cheated on (physically) by my "soon-to-be-ex" I believe that the pain caused by the physical is directly related to the mental. It crushed me and all I worked so hard for. I thought that she appreciated me for working multiple jobs so that she could stay home and be with the kids and thats how I was betrayed! Thats the word - betrayal. I think the key here was that she basically betrayed me and when she was the only person that I could count on 100% once thats gone - its VERY difficult to get back. I never looked at her the same and I strongly feel that is the main reasoon we split up. Even though it took years for it to happen, I tried for a long time to get passed it, but was unable. Maybe I'm not as good a man as I thought. I dunno.

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