I'm a middle school kid again

[Spexxvet]

I think you have to walk up behind a girl and pull her pigtails.

[Perry Winkle]

I think you did show the world how over her you are. That is, not so very much over her.

Really, don't go out and put pressure on yourself to pull off some kind of Don Juan performance. It's not going to happen, and you'll just end up frustrated.

Also, you need to realize that pretty much everybody else has some sort of insecurity that they're dealing with. You feel like an emo lamer; the guy dancing with every babe in the room has the same insecurity, he's just ignoring it and having fun.

[SteveDallas]

Originally Posted by freshnesschronic

How do you dance with girls?

Abraham Lincoln is reputed to have said to his future second wife, "I would like to dance with you in the worst way." She later remarked that he had indeed done it in the worst way... stepping all over her feet, etc.

Originally Posted by Spexxvet

I think you have to walk up behind a girl and pull her pigtails.

I thought you were supposed to put the pigtails in your inkwell?

Anyway as should be obvious by now I have no helpful advice. But I would suggest you examine whether a club like this is an environment that's good for you to meet girls. By "good" I mean you're comfortable there, you like the place, etc. Maybe it is--if so, go for it. If not, consider where else you might go. If you're not at ease in your surroundings, there's no way you will make any time with the ladies.

[Sheldonrs]

Just walk up to a girl and sa out loud, "Do you smell fish?". As she is running after you to kick your balls into the next county, the other girls there will see her chasing you and assume you must be really hot
and then they will want to meet you.