The Sex Thread - Page 64

pourbill · 05-24-2007, 09:30 AM

LabRat, getting back to your original question I have noticed that many couples that are having a tough time concieving turn to adoption--AND then get pregnant. This leads me to conclude that it is to some degree, a matter of pressure. It is hard to not feel it when someone says don't feel it, but give it a try by just having sex for fun. Do some sexy stuff, play around, go for the wildest good time you can and make the aim to have the best sex you ever had, not to just concieve. Relax and enjoy, make it about the sex, the worst that can happen is you have some great sex.

theotherguy · 05-24-2007, 11:38 AM

Thanks lr. I like to see me getting some too.

--> drifting with you for a secondI checked it out and posted.

theotherguy · 05-24-2007, 11:43 AM

I have to agree with Bill on the sex/adoption thing. I have known several families that have had the same situation. We have both had a bio child and adopted. For us adoption wasn't due to the fact that we couldn't get pregnant. Just a choice. We went into pregnancy very casually. If it happened it happened. If not, oh well. There are so many great kids out there who need good, loving homes.

This may be a little too serious for the sex thread. From what I read on the first umpteen pages, this is more about the raw stuff.

LabRat · 05-24-2007, 01:02 PM

Here's some raw info then...

Went off the pill in Jan, but both Jan and Feb hubby pulled because he wasn't 110% positive he was ready yet. March, only had one chance that conception could have occured, then I was out of town for a week. April, his back was starting to bug him, and we again only had probably 2 times where conception was likely to have occured. May, only had sex once so far, and probably too early in my cycle. Now, it's probably too late. BUT ,his back is finally starting to feel better, so maybe June will be a lucky month.

Now the world knows how pathetic my sex life has been in '07.

I know there are a lot of people who have been really trying for a lot longer than me so I should shaddup, but dang-it, patience is not one of my virtues.

theotherguy · 05-24-2007, 01:24 PM

OK, you really have to up the getting laid to get knocked up. That average is really sad. He is going to let a little thing like a hurt back stop him? I have seen the pics (yeah I looked 'em up) and it would take a hell of a lot more than a sore back to stop me from being on you every night!

LabRat · 05-24-2007, 03:36 PM

theotherguy · 05-24-2007, 03:44 PM

I just re-read some posts back and noticed something. So, Duck, licking up silky thighs is not foreplay? I may have to rethink some things. Maybe I should start out by lighting some candles.

All this time I thought getting my parts licked/sucked/touched/looked at was foreplay...(he wanders off dazed and confused)

theotherguy · 05-24-2007, 03:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LabRat

Score! I made LabRat blush!

Crimson Ghost · 05-24-2007, 07:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by thenewguy

Score! I made LabRat blush!

You are now a man.

DucksNuts · 05-24-2007, 07:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by thenewguy

I just re-read some posts back and noticed something. So, Duck, licking up silky thighs is not foreplay? I may have to rethink some things. Maybe I should start out by lighting some candles.

All this time I thought getting my parts licked/sucked/touched/looked at was foreplay...(he wanders off dazed and confused)

Oh no, its a very acceptable form of foreplay IN THE FLESH

my point was, that if >I< was in a sex chat room (which never happens...nonononon :p ) and a random guy wanted to have wild freaky net love with me...it takes a bit of work to get my motor running..

oh...never mind

Aliantha · 05-24-2007, 10:30 PM

*trying to remember who it was that was chatting to me last week and then got distracted by a sex chat room*

I'm pretty sure it was DUCKSNUTS!

From what I've heard, she's an expert at freaky internet love.

Maybe you two could....

... oh never mind.

DucksNuts · 05-24-2007, 10:43 PM

*cough*bitch*cough*

:p

Aliantha · 05-24-2007, 11:12 PM

Gee, that's not nice ducksy...after all I've done for you.

That's the last time I give you a free playground!

theotherguy · 05-25-2007, 08:30 AM

What? No no. I have only been around a brief time, but I can already tell that Ducks is a pure as driven snow.

lookout123 · 05-25-2007, 10:41 AM

well, i'll be in the QC in a month so I can chat with your hubby about options that won't bother the back. come on, be creative. experimentation makes the conception all that much more fun!

05-24-2007, 09:30 AM	#946
pourbill Do-er of Deeds Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: washington, missouri Posts: 41	LabRat, getting back to your original question I have noticed that many couples that are having a tough time concieving turn to adoption--AND then get pregnant. This leads me to conclude that it is to some degree, a matter of pressure. It is hard to not feel it when someone says don't feel it, but give it a try by just having sex for fun. Do some sexy stuff, play around, go for the wildest good time you can and make the aim to have the best sex you ever had, not to just concieve. Relax and enjoy, make it about the sex, the worst that can happen is you have some great sex. __________________ We cannot direct the wind, but we can adjust the sails

05-24-2007, 01:02 PM	#949
LabRat twatfaced two legged bumhole Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 3,143	Here's some raw info then... Went off the pill in Jan, but both Jan and Feb hubby pulled because he wasn't 110% positive he was ready yet. March, only had one chance that conception could have occured, then I was out of town for a week. April, his back was starting to bug him, and we again only had probably 2 times where conception was likely to have occured. May, only had sex once so far, and probably too early in my cycle. Now, it's probably too late. BUT ,his back is finally starting to feel better, so maybe June will be a lucky month. Now the world knows how pathetic my sex life has been in '07. I know there are a lot of people who have been really trying for a lot longer than me so I should shaddup, but dang-it, patience is not one of my virtues. __________________ Strength does not come from how much weight you can lift, or how many miles you can run. It comes from knowing that you set a goal, and rose to the challenge. Strength comes from within.

05-24-2007, 03:36 PM	#951
LabRat twatfaced two legged bumhole Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 3,143	__________________ Strength does not come from how much weight you can lift, or how many miles you can run. It comes from knowing that you set a goal, and rose to the challenge. Strength comes from within.

05-24-2007, 10:30 PM	#956
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	trying to remember who it was that was chatting to me last week and then got distracted by a sex chat room I'm pretty sure it was DUCKSNUTS! From what I've heard, she's an expert at freaky internet love. Maybe you two could.... ... oh never mind. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

05-24-2007, 11:12 PM	#958
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	Gee, that's not nice ducksy...after all I've done for you. That's the last time I give you a free playground! __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

05-24-2007, 11:38 AM	#947
theotherguy no not that other guy, the other one Join Date: May 2007 Location: TN Posts: 640	Thanks lr. I like to see me getting some too. --> drifting with you for a secondI checked it out and posted.

05-24-2007, 11:43 AM	#948
theotherguy no not that other guy, the other one Join Date: May 2007 Location: TN Posts: 640	I have to agree with Bill on the sex/adoption thing. I have known several families that have had the same situation. We have both had a bio child and adopted. For us adoption wasn't due to the fact that we couldn't get pregnant. Just a choice. We went into pregnancy very casually. If it happened it happened. If not, oh well. There are so many great kids out there who need good, loving homes. This may be a little too serious for the sex thread. From what I read on the first umpteen pages, this is more about the raw stuff.

05-24-2007, 01:24 PM	#950
theotherguy no not that other guy, the other one Join Date: May 2007 Location: TN Posts: 640	OK, you really have to up the getting laid to get knocked up. That average is really sad. He is going to let a little thing like a hurt back stop him? I have seen the pics (yeah I looked 'em up) and it would take a hell of a lot more than a sore back to stop me from being on you every night!

05-24-2007, 03:44 PM	#952
theotherguy no not that other guy, the other one Join Date: May 2007 Location: TN Posts: 640	I just re-read some posts back and noticed something. So, Duck, licking up silky thighs is not foreplay? I may have to rethink some things. Maybe I should start out by lighting some candles. All this time I thought getting my parts licked/sucked/touched/looked at was foreplay...(he wanders off dazed and confused)

05-24-2007, 10:43 PM	#957
DucksNuts Bitchy Little Brat Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 5,067	coughbitchcough :p

05-25-2007, 08:30 AM	#959
theotherguy no not that other guy, the other one Join Date: May 2007 Location: TN Posts: 640	What? No no. I have only been around a brief time, but I can already tell that Ducks is a pure as driven snow.

05-25-2007, 10:41 AM	#960
lookout123 changed his status to single Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Right behind you. No, the other side. Posts: 10,308	well, i'll be in the QC in a month so I can chat with your hubby about options that won't bother the back. come on, be creative. experimentation makes the conception all that much more fun! __________________ Getting knocked down is no sin, it's not getting back up that's the sin

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