Marriage question for guys - Page 2

Cicero · 10-05-2007, 02:23 PM

Hime is starting to sound like me with ol' lingerie questions....not good. Turn back now Hime!! Save yourseeelllfff!

Ha Ha! He didn't ask you to return it immediately did he?!?

I think I recently took over a whole thread with this type of scenario.

lookout123 · 10-05-2007, 02:56 PM

OK, she spends money for something that is (let's face it) really for her husband and there is even a thought given to whether it was a good use of the money? I don't get it. As long as it wasn't money needed to feed the kids then who cares?

Enjoy life and don't look for things to cause friction in the relationship.

kerosene · 10-05-2007, 03:03 PM

Thanks, Lookout. I asked this question of my husband and he gave an almost identical response.

Cicero · 10-05-2007, 03:47 PM

Hmmm...I read Hime's post again....I'm thinking Hime may have bought a *little more* than just lingerie........

theotherguy · 10-05-2007, 03:51 PM

I think it is important for us to see the aforementioned Hime in this alleged lingerie before a true judgment can be made.

Aliantha · 10-05-2007, 07:26 PM

If a wife buys sexy lingerie to wear for her husband, then it's a gift to him, but it's loaded so there are considerations.

From my own personal experience, my husband has never ever ever complained about money I spend on lingerie that i purchase for him to take off. He doesn't complain about any of the money I spend though, so I guess I'm lucky in that way. I can tell he really likes it when I spend money on something sexy though. There are a number of signs.

monster · 10-05-2007, 08:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hime

Would you be happy that she wanted to excite you, or annoyed that she spent money on something frivolous without discussing it with you?

needs more context.....

is she a double-bagger?

My hubby wouldn't have any idea of the cost until the credit card bill came, so option (a) would apply. If he noticed at all. :p

xoxoxoBruce · 10-07-2007, 06:47 PM

I'd be outraged and rip it right off her.

Razzmatazz13 · 10-07-2007, 08:04 PM

and then give her a good spanking just to prove your point?

Madman · 10-08-2007, 02:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hime

Kind of a weird question, I guess: if you are married and share a bank account with your wife, how would you react to coming home and finding your wife waiting to seduce you, wearing new, expensive (and very sexy) lingerie? Would you be happy that she wanted to excite you, or annoyed that she spent money on something frivolous without discussing it with you?

Depends on a few things... Like...

1. How much money do you make
2. Do you really give a shit... that she bought it...
3. Just how horny are you
4. Just how horny is she
5. Is it easy to take off
6. Quality and quantity of the... you know...
7. How much money does she make
8. Is she hot looking
9. Is she not hot looking
10. You didn't just masturbate
11. Whatever else sounds good to make things better.

Cicero · 10-08-2007, 02:53 PM

Oh...."for guys"........sorry.....oopsy.

TheMercenary · 10-08-2007, 08:48 PM

It really falls back on the kind of budget you are on. I have found that most relationships have one of each kind of person, one is a spender, the other is a saver. Somehow you balance each other out.

So back to the original question, I might be pissed if our discretionary spending account was only $50 a month and she spend $75 for a one nighter. As someone else said it all comes down to communication IMHO. But hey on the other had if money is not a big deal, well hell have at it babe. I usually spend around $300 give or take on my wife at Victoria's Secret for Christmas. I encourage her to shop for that stuff when ever she feels like she needs to. The other factor has to do with what type of romantic relationship you have with your SO, but that is another subject altogether.

10-05-2007, 02:23 PM	#16
Cicero Looking forward to open mic night. Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: New Mexico Posts: 5,148	Hime is starting to sound like me with ol' lingerie questions....not good. Turn back now Hime!! Save yourseeelllfff! Ha Ha! He didn't ask you to return it immediately did he?!? I think I recently took over a whole thread with this type of scenario. __________________ Show me a sane man, and I will cure him for you.- Carl Jung

10-05-2007, 02:56 PM	#17
lookout123 changed his status to single Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Right behind you. No, the other side. Posts: 10,308	OK, she spends money for something that is (let's face it) really for her husband and there is even a thought given to whether it was a good use of the money? I don't get it. As long as it wasn't money needed to feed the kids then who cares? Enjoy life and don't look for things to cause friction in the relationship. __________________ Getting knocked down is no sin, it's not getting back up that's the sin

10-05-2007, 03:47 PM	#19
Cicero Looking forward to open mic night. Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: New Mexico Posts: 5,148	Hmmm...I read Hime's post again....I'm thinking Hime may have bought a little more than just lingerie........ __________________ Show me a sane man, and I will cure him for you.- Carl Jung

10-05-2007, 07:26 PM	#21
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	If a wife buys sexy lingerie to wear for her husband, then it's a gift to him, but it's loaded so there are considerations. From my own personal experience, my husband has never ever ever complained about money I spend on lingerie that i purchase for him to take off. He doesn't complain about any of the money I spend though, so I guess I'm lucky in that way. I can tell he really likes it when I spend money on something sexy though. There are a number of signs. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

10-07-2007, 08:04 PM	#24
Razzmatazz13 Vicariously, I live... Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: USA Posts: 1,221	and then give her a good spanking just to prove your point? __________________ I have some people I need to have smoted. ~ SteveDallas

10-05-2007, 03:03 PM	#18
kerosene Touring the facilities Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: The plains of Colorado Posts: 3,476	Thanks, Lookout. I asked this question of my husband and he gave an almost identical response.

10-05-2007, 03:51 PM	#20
theotherguy no not that other guy, the other one Join Date: May 2007 Location: TN Posts: 640	I think it is important for us to see the aforementioned Hime in this alleged lingerie before a true judgment can be made.

10-07-2007, 06:47 PM	#23
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	I'd be outraged and rip it right off her.

10-08-2007, 02:53 PM	#26
Cicero Looking forward to open mic night. Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: New Mexico Posts: 5,148	Oh...."for guys"........sorry.....oopsy. __________________ Show me a sane man, and I will cure him for you.- Carl Jung

10-08-2007, 08:48 PM	#27
TheMercenary “Hypocrisy: prejudice with a halo” Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Savannah, Georgia Posts: 21,393	It really falls back on the kind of budget you are on. I have found that most relationships have one of each kind of person, one is a spender, the other is a saver. Somehow you balance each other out. So back to the original question, I might be pissed if our discretionary spending account was only $50 a month and she spend $75 for a one nighter. As someone else said it all comes down to communication IMHO. But hey on the other had if money is not a big deal, well hell have at it babe. I usually spend around $300 give or take on my wife at Victoria's Secret for Christmas. I encourage her to shop for that stuff when ever she feels like she needs to. The other factor has to do with what type of romantic relationship you have with your SO, but that is another subject altogether. __________________ Anyone but the this most fuked up President in History in 2012!

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