Sitting on the fence....

Originally Posted by queequeger

NoBoxes and UG both imply (unless I misunderstand) that more children instantly means a less responsible parent.

You misunderstand. The predetermined number of children constitutes a selfish, childlike, self indulgence (with children, the end justifies the means). This aspect of her character is distinct from her ability to own up to the responsibilities of parenthood. The potential outcomes are irrelevant to this assessment.