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Old 10-22-2007, 12:45 PM   #466
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In no way was it an attack, it was an accurate description of what she was doing, rehashing a topic that had been previously exhausted, ad-naseum, previously in the thread... a thread she had not read. Yes, she had been invited, how does that precode reading it?

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Wrong. A thread she had contributed to extensively. Also wrong, she wasn't invited, she was the one doing the inviting.

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I stated dyslexia can occur in any intelligence range, clearly and concisely. Two posts later. You must have missed that one. Please, go check it out.
No I read it. I had responded to an earlier post in which you claimed dyslexia to be a disease of the intelligent. Your response was to attack me. My next few posts were tackling that attack.


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I'm glad you are better at diagnosing me over the net than the professionals that have in person, more than once... you are truly skilled!
At what point have i attempted to diagnose you? I did not deny you were dyslexic at any point. I just took issue with your assertion that dyslexia is an indication of intelligence. I have taken on faith, because you have told me, that you are dyslexic. I recall you mentioning it once before, if memory serves. I am neither qualified, nor intending to become qualified, in diagnosing dyslexia. I have however, some training in how to teach literacy to dyslexic adults and in the process of that training i gained at least a modicum of an understanding of the condition.

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Actually, you have returned and posted an extensive and factually incorrect attack.
I did not post an attack. I posted a rebuttal. At what point was my post factually incorrect? Generally speaking, board decorum would suggest that you cite the specific part of the post which you deem to be incorrect. Just pointing your finger at me and saying 'wrong' won't do.
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Old 10-22-2007, 12:48 PM   #467
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dude is even an asshole to those who bend over backwards to make allowances for his bitter hateful mannerisms.
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Old 10-22-2007, 12:53 PM   #468
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This thread. RK. This thread that I didn't even read....Did I read this right?

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My joke wasn't that funny but you took the opportunity to call me a"sexist".
There are other examples...I'm just tired of the arguement....Done. I'm just done with it.



I'm working on being more polite, everywhere. I'm trying to visualize how I act and how I normally treat people to their faces...So the same will apply here from now on....
You also don't know that I did a fair amount of research on the topic of sexism. I had to reverse my opinion after a period of intense study, and a couple of specious essays that I received a perfect score on. It was going to be a book, it was going so well. I had an epiphany about the said topic and had to dump my former ideas, and the idea of a book as well. I am probably the least sexist person I know, because I am very sensitive to it and unlike most people, (because they are normal and I am crazy over the topic) I actually recognize when I'm ascribing to it, and stop myself. Like most of your insults- that one just doesn't fly and you could never understand the depths of how wrong your impressions are about it.

So- I'm not going to argue. Hope you are having a good one and there's no need to even respond to what I've written here if you would like to continue in this vein.....
I read too much Epictetus this weekend and I am giving up inflammatory arguements and trading them in for good debates. There's just no good, in any sense of the word, that can come from it. I've been pretty petty here lately, as I have been bated and took the hook almost every time.
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I hope you are having a good day and if you aren't...find a way to make that happen!


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I hope Dana was just refering to me.
I felt, in context, your comment was sexist. However, seeing your side of it and the humor aspect, you are correct, I can see how it could be seen both ways and I do apologize for that. I will try to be more careful in the future.
Trust me, no one wants all this kid shit to stop more than I. I just want to discuss topics without all the stalking and spam.
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Old 10-22-2007, 12:57 PM   #469
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At what point have i attempted to diagnose you?
You never stated I am not dyslexic? Sorry. I thought you had and read this to be that you were. My mistake, I aplogise... though others had, and I still think you implied it.

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The fact that you have a long list of very clever, very creative people with dyslexia tells us nothing, other than that dyslexia need not disable someone from participating in literary, academic, or creative pursuits. I can find you a similar list of very clever, very creative people who are not dyslexic.
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rk, just because people disagree with you does not make them stalkers.
I never said it did, following me from thread to thread to thread, post to post to post just to insult me OT is stalking and nothing else.
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Old 10-22-2007, 01:03 PM   #470
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Dana, you are saying I never made post #453 in this thread?
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Old 10-22-2007, 01:06 PM   #471
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My mistake, I aplogise... though others had, and I still think you implied it.
No. I implied nothing of the sort. I fail to see how anybody could read anything i've posted on this topic and come to that conclusion, rk. I understand others have implied it, but I categorically did not. On the contrary I have been operating on the understanding that you are dyslexic.

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I never said it did, following me from thread to thread to thread, post to post to post just to insult me OT is stalking and nothing else.
Are you seriously suggesting this is what I'm doing? I'm sorry but if you are that's just ludicrous. I hit New Posts and go to the posts I find interesting/intriguing ot to which I have at some point already contributed. Sometimes when I log in your name is listed as last poster for most of the threads I am interested in.

I post how I see it on each individual thread. There are times I post in support of something you've said. There are times I post in disagreement. There are times you say something that annoys me enough to post in a less friendly fashion. This is not stalking. This engaging in the constant live debates that characterise the Cellar.

If you really think I am victimising you in some way, then my friend, you have a very strange view of victimisation.
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Old 10-22-2007, 01:12 PM   #472
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No. I implied nothing of the sort. I fail to see how anybody could read anything i've posted on this topic and come to that conclusion, rk. I understand others have implied it, but I categorically did not. On the contrary I have been operating on the understanding that you are dyslexic.
I'm sorry, I've been under attack a lot today and assumed the worst. Thanks again.
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Are you seriously suggesting this is what I'm doing?
I have never called you a stalker, troll or anything remotely like that.
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Old 10-22-2007, 01:13 PM   #473
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Okay, fair enough. I misunderstood your post :P
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Old 10-22-2007, 03:03 PM   #474
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Old 10-22-2007, 03:15 PM   #475
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I agree.
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Old 10-22-2007, 10:37 PM   #476
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Now that we've all had a big group hug, I'd like to point out that I'm pretty sure no one on this forum 'stalks' others. I do what Dana (and I'm pretty sure just about everyone else) does, I look at new posts and see what interests me.

The reason (for example) tw and UG are constantly arguing is not because they sit around searching for each other's previous posts, it's because they're both clicking on the same threads because they're interested in the same topics... and they happen to disagree VERY strongly about them.
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