Pick Up Artist

[Shawnee123]

I guess all I want to do is to become better with women. The sex, relationships, drama and whatever are all byproducts. I'm in it for the process.

It's not rocket science, dude. To "become better with women" all any man really needs to do is pay attention, be kind, and treat her with honesty and respect.

Women don't really want Mr Smooth Rico Suave...just be yourself. The way you put it sounds so phony and robotic. Do you need schematics and work procedures?

[lookout123]

if you don't take the time to work on you and figure out why it is that you have this deep desire "to just be better with women" and an interest in being a PUA you're just destined to be a douchebag picking up the slags at closing time. you seem to have this misguided idea that a PUA is good with women. A PUA is easy to spot from a mile away because he's the one using tired cliche moves that are transparent attempts to get some ass. he will often be successful at getting laid but that's it. he doesn't get that the same woman probably would have slept with him anyway, but if he'd been a bit more genuine there would be more positive after effects than grabbing his pants and splitting. A successful PUA has the same basic value as condom. Sure, it does the job, but it just isn't the same as feeling. you can't be better with women until you're better with yourself.