Need advice for a friend, quick!

FileNotFound · 12-17-2003, 01:38 PM

He took her out for coffee?

OMFG!! CHEATING!

Give me a break. That's just about the worst case of overreacting I've seen.

She maybe his wife, but that doesn't give her the right to forbid her husband to see his 'friends' unless she has solid evidence of him being unfaithful. Sorry coffee doesn't cut it. Hanging around his arm doesn't cut it.

Most importantly: The guy is being honest and isn't hiding his interaction with the girl. As in there is nothing to hide.

If she loves him and believes he is honest, then she should trust him and no try to control his life or make sure that he never as much as looks at another woman again.

This whole thing is based on nothing but suspicion and insecurity. I'm sorry but the husband isn't the problem. It's your friend.

Married or not married, men will see other women, they will interact with then, they may even have lunch with them. But it all means nothing as long as he loves his wife. Trying to control him will only make him love you less.

The whole thing reminds me of my past relationship where my ex used to give me shit when I HAD to work with a girl I liked in a group project.

12-17-2003, 01:38 PM	#1
FileNotFound Intouch with his inner sheep rider. Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 603	He took her out for coffee? OMFG!! CHEATING! Give me a break. That's just about the worst case of overreacting I've seen. She maybe his wife, but that doesn't give her the right to forbid her husband to see his 'friends' unless she has solid evidence of him being unfaithful. Sorry coffee doesn't cut it. Hanging around his arm doesn't cut it. Most importantly: The guy is being honest and isn't hiding his interaction with the girl. As in there is nothing to hide. If she loves him and believes he is honest, then she should trust him and no try to control his life or make sure that he never as much as looks at another woman again. This whole thing is based on nothing but suspicion and insecurity. I'm sorry but the husband isn't the problem. It's your friend. Married or not married, men will see other women, they will interact with then, they may even have lunch with them. But it all means nothing as long as he loves his wife. Trying to control him will only make him love you less. The whole thing reminds me of my past relationship where my ex used to give me shit when I HAD to work with a girl I liked in a group project. __________________ This is a rat. \|This is a hamster.\| This is a chipmunk.\| This is a Sheep Rider.

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