The drama that always infects my life...

TheMercenary · 12-30-2010, 08:13 AM

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Originally Posted by wolf

Kick his ass out. Be done with him.

And don't get involved with anyone in the middle of a divorce. I'm not saying stay away from divorced men, but wait until the ashes of the relationship cool.

And, believe his side of the story only with corroboration.

Many men do give accurate accounts of their separations and divorces ... but not all of them.

Wolf nails it. Listen to her. Be done with it before you get in to deep. He has caused you enough trouble already. It would be different if you had a relationship well established, but you don't.

glatt · 12-30-2010, 09:11 AM

Guy is unemployed. (minor strike against him in this economy)

Guy abuses alcohol (major strike)

Guy made a promise to you and he broke it. You can't trust him. (Major, major, major strike against him)

He caused you serious inconvenience. (major strike)

And then he tried to hit you up for bail money. (strike)

He has a history of bad relationships. (major strike)

How many strikes does it take before he's out? Seriously? This is a no-brainer.

RUN!

Griff · 12-30-2010, 11:54 AM

Glatt did the math on this one. I agree.

xoxoxoBruce · 12-30-2010, 12:44 PM

I would question the "history of bad relationships", but other than that it adds up.

glatt · 12-30-2010, 01:07 PM

Yeah, I'm making an assumption there that he shares a large part of the blame for his failed marriage, but I could be wrong.

xoxoxoBruce · 12-30-2010, 01:25 PM

Maybe his drinking was the cause, or could be the effect. Even so, one failed marriage doesn't make a history, or an awful lot of us would be historical figures.

12-30-2010, 11:54 AM	#3
Griff still says videotape Join Date: Feb 2001 Posts: 26,813	Glatt did the math on this one. I agree. __________________ If you would only recognize that life is hard, things would be so much easier for you. - Louis D. Brandeis

12-30-2010, 12:44 PM	#4
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	I would question the "history of bad relationships", but other than that it adds up. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

12-30-2010, 01:25 PM	#6
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	Maybe his drinking was the cause, or could be the effect. Even so, one failed marriage doesn't make a history, or an awful lot of us would be historical figures. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

12-30-2010, 09:11 AM	#2
glatt ™ Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Arlington, VA Posts: 27,717	Guy is unemployed. (minor strike against him in this economy) Guy abuses alcohol (major strike) Guy made a promise to you and he broke it. You can't trust him. (Major, major, major strike against him) He caused you serious inconvenience. (major strike) And then he tried to hit you up for bail money. (strike) He has a history of bad relationships. (major strike) How many strikes does it take before he's out? Seriously? This is a no-brainer. RUN!

12-30-2010, 01:07 PM	#5
glatt ™ Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Arlington, VA Posts: 27,717	Yeah, I'm making an assumption there that he shares a large part of the blame for his failed marriage, but I could be wrong.

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