Not much time left...and I miss my parents...

[morethanpretty]

Pam,
I never said "quit" and that is not what I mean or want you to do. I very seriously want you to take a break. Only for a bit. A lot of us here have our own mental issues, but to varying degrees. Yours seems more severe at this time. I am not asking you to change who you are essentially, but none of us are perfect the way we are. I want you to get healthier. Online interactions are difficult, they can cause mental stress. An issue you are struggling with. This is not a judgement against your character, this is just an observation you yourself told us about. Move back to your parents, keep up with therapy and medicine, DO NOT DRINK, take a break from online socializing and build up to it slowly when you're more prepared for it mentally. You are welcome in this forum, but at this time, we are not healthy for you. Your reaction to Dana's "lol" comment just recently should show you that we are not.

[pensive pam]

Originally Posted by morethanpretty

Pam,
I never said "quit" and that is not what I mean or want you to do. I very seriously want you to take a break. Only for a bit. A lot of us here have our own mental issues, but to varying degrees. Yours seems more severe at this time. I am not asking you to change who you are essentially, but none of us are perfect the way we are. I want you to get healthier. Online interactions are difficult, they can cause mental stress. An issue you are struggling with. This is not a judgement against your character, this is just an observation you yourself told us about. Move back to your parents, keep up with therapy and medicine, DO NOT DRINK, take a break from online socializing and build up to it slowly when you're more prepared for it mentally. You are welcome in this forum, but at this time, we are not healthy for you. Your reaction to Dana's "lol" comment just recently should show you that we are not.

I will take a break starting tomorrow. but once i start on here, i can not stop till sleepy time. so i will do best not to post tomorrow. would that be Ok?? you have been sweet. i want to ask you something, but do not want u to be offeneded. and perhaps, it is not my business...and i do not wish to be 'banned'... oh god...how do i ask?

Pam.

[morethanpretty]

Originally Posted by pensive pam

I will take a break starting tomorrow. but once i start on here, i can not stop till sleepy time. so i will do best not to post tomorrow. would that be Ok?? you have been sweet. i want to ask you something, but do not want u to be offeneded. and perhaps, it is not my business...and i do not wish to be 'banned'... oh god...how do i ask?

Pam.

You have been told the rules for banning, I tried to find them but am feeling lazy. Its not easy to get banned, though you can request it.
One day is a start, but you need longer than that to become mentally healthy. I think you need a break of probably a few months at least, while you work on getting help and healthy.

As to your question, I am a top but I am not into bestiality.

[pensive pam]

Originally Posted by morethanpretty

You have been told the rules for banning, I tried to find them but am feeling lazy. Its not easy to get banned, though you can request it.
One day is a start, but you need longer than that to become mentally healthy. I think you need a break of probably a few months at least, while you work on getting help and healthy.

As to your question, I am a top but I am not into bestiality.

No, i would never request to be 'banned.' i like it here. my question was if you were a hermaphrodite. because you have that 'tagline.' i do not judge...and am accepting to everyone nice. i was just curious. that is all... you are very sweet...

Love,
Pam.

[Nirvana]

If that was you why did you remove the photo?

[pensive pam]

Originally Posted by Nirvana

If that was you why did you remove the photo?

the photo is still there. i can see it. perhaps a problem with upload. but I can see it is there. it is me in a gothic pose... you can not see it??? i will have to ask mr. undertaod.

very best,
Pam.

[morethanpretty]

Originally Posted by pensive pam

No, i would never request to be 'banned.' i like it here. my question was if you were a hermaphrodite. because you have that 'tagline.' i do not judge...and am accepting to everyone nice. i was just curious. that is all... you are very sweet...

Love,
Pam.

I just have that quote because I love Steven Colbert and I think its amusing. I am a supporter of equal rights for all of the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender community although I am not really a part of that community. I am also against animal abuse, but I am not a dog.

Hermaphrodites have fully functioning sex organs of both genders. In humans, you are considered a "true hermaphrodite" if you have both male gonadal tissue (testes) and female gonadal tissue (ovarian tissue), this is very very rare. The term used most for humans can be "inter-sexed" (this is the medical term I was taught) which mostly means they have functioning sex organs of one gender and secondary characteristics of the other gender. "Hermaphrodite" has kinda become a derogatory and offensive term to use for a person. Some societies consider inter-sexed a separate gender from male and female and give them a lot of respect.

Some dwellers in the past have been requested to be banned for their own good because they got too wrapped up emotionally in The Cellar and could not stop themselves from posting. In those cases, once the dweller requests a mod to lift their ban, the mod will do so. Volunteer banning is a semi-normal practice for us.

[pensive pam]

Originally Posted by morethanpretty

I just have that quote because I love Steven Colbert and I think its amusing. I am a supporter of equal rights for all of the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender community although I am not really a part of that community. I am also against animal abuse, but I am not a dog.

Hermaphrodites have fully functioning sex organs of both genders. In humans, you are considered a "true hermaphrodite" if you have both male gonadal tissue (testes) and female gonadal tissue (ovarian tissue), this is very very rare. The term used most for humans can be "inter-sexed" (this is the medical term I was taught) which mostly means they have functioning sex organs of one gender and secondary characteristics of the other gender. "Hermaphrodite" has kinda become a derogatory and offensive term to use for a person. Some societies consider inter-sexed a separate gender from male and female and give them a lot of respect.

Some dwellers in the past have been requested to be banned for their own good because they got too wrapped up emotionally in The Cellar and could not stop themselves from posting. In those cases, once the dweller requests a mod to lift their ban, the mod will do so. Volunteer banning is a semi-normal practice for us.

perhaps, i understand. but you did not answer the question. if it is too personal i nuderstand. no worries. i wont ask again. your face looks female. hey, it does not matter. i still lke you...and i hope you are well!

Your friend,
Pam.

[DanaC]

Originally Posted by pensive pam

perhaps, i understand. but you did not answer the question. if it is too personal i nuderstand. no worries. i wont ask again. your face looks female. hey, it does not matter. i still lke you...and i hope you are well!

Your friend,
Pam.

She did answer your question.