Arguments: men vs. women

[xoxoxoBruce]

Originally posted by staceyv
to all guys: you could prevent the argument in the first place if you just took the time to think through what you were going to say, and say it in a non-offensive manner. there are two ways to say everything. your first try which was basically telling her that she looked trashy and her pants were too tight was AWFUL. the second try, where you said that you didn't want her wearing the pants because they look too good on her and men stare was really good- it was a compliment to her. it's all about HOW you ask for it, not what you're asking for. you could get any message in the world across to her without creating an argument if you just worded it right.

Well duh, those are two completely different statements and two completely different meanings. They are NOT a right and wrong way to say the same thing.