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Old 10-09-2011, 12:38 PM   #46
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Yes, Cassie is the mother of Addie. Cassie is 26 years younger than me and is the one that left me for another soldier while I was in the hospital. I spent a couple of hundred on her & Addie at the feed store buying boots & hats. I had a good time & we didn't even shake hands. However I know I am flirting with extreme danger.

Louis & Elizabeth are my children I had with Susan. We split because I rejoined the military after 9/11 knowing I was going to deploy again. She had gone through Desert Storm with me & felt like I was abadonning our family for the Army. She would have taken me back after I got back from the first tour but I was buck wild chasing young stuff, drinking, and getting tattooed. LOL

Bryanna is not my biological child. She is Native American and never knew her father. I am friends with her grandparents & just took over the role. Her mother has problems with prescription meds & when I worked narcotics it really pushed me into Bryanna's life.

I know it is easy to get all of the baby mommas confused, but this is just a brief reminder of whom they are. Biological or not, they are all my kids and I love them dearly!! It is the baby momma drama that drives me nuts!!
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Old 10-09-2011, 04:44 PM   #47
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I respect you even more now Sarge. Wow. Thats a LOT to keep track of and handle.
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Old 10-09-2011, 09:51 PM   #48
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Old 10-10-2011, 10:59 PM   #49
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Stupid question - I know I'm not much to look at, but why can't women look past that and see me for whom I really am?? I know I come off gruff a lot of times, but I think when people see me with kids my real side comes out. I know this sounds pitiful, but why can't I meet someone special like Sundae or Lola Bunny? I'm so tired of being sick & alone
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Old 10-10-2011, 11:04 PM   #50
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Stupid question - I know I'm not much to look at, but why can't women look past that and see me for whom I really am?? I know I come off gruff a lot of times, but I think when people see me with kids my real side comes out. I know this sounds pitiful, but why can't I meet someone special like Sundae or Lola Bunny? I'm so tired of being sick & alone
Maybe you're looking at the wrong people. I don't know anyone's status here, so forgive me if I'm speaking out of line, but if you really like Sundae or Lola Bunny, then why don't you meet up with one of them and see what happens?
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Old 10-10-2011, 11:19 PM   #51
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Sundae is my dream girl. My true fantasy, but she lives in Great Britain and is liberal while I'm a gun toting southern boy. Lola Bunny is cute as a button, but comes from a traditional family that I just don't think they'd be too receptive of a jewish soldier/cop. LOL

Most of the women I meet are at the jail in handcuffs. I really think it's hard to start a meaningful relationship that way.
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Old 10-11-2011, 09:03 AM   #52
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Stupid question - I know I'm not much to look at, but why can't women look past that and see me for whom I really am?? I know I come off gruff a lot of times, but I think when people see me with kids my real side comes out. I know this sounds pitiful, but why can't I meet someone special like Sundae or Lola Bunny? I'm so tired of being sick & alone
1 -- not a stupid question. it's one I wrestled with and do sometimes still find baffling when my girlfriend smiles and swoons and focuses (positively) on my appearance. I know what you're talking about Sarge.

2 -- let me change your question a little bit... from "women" to "a woman". It just takes one man. Which one, and where is she, those are good follow up questions, but let's not get ahead of ourselves. It just takes one man. Never mind "women", just one will do ya. And finding that one is absolutely possible, you've already met a number of them, not including SG and Lola. Did they not see you for who you really are? I say this is not some impossibility. It has happened, and can happen again.

3 -- all the rest, gruffness, how you are with children, etc etc. sure. I'm down with all that. You can meet a special woman, you can. And there's not just one how, there are lots of ways, all of which require your active participation, plenty of patience and perseverance. Have courage!!
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Old 10-11-2011, 08:28 PM   #53
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2 -- let me change your question a little bit... from "women" to "a woman". It just takes one man. Which one, and where is she, those are good follow up questions, but let's not get ahead of ourselves. It just takes one man.
then what? you snip it off?
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Old 10-11-2011, 08:33 PM   #54
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Heh.

Tha's a typo. "It just takes one man." should read "It just takes one woman."

Thanks for pointing out my error and giving me a chance to correct it.
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Old 10-11-2011, 10:05 PM   #55
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Old 10-11-2011, 10:27 PM   #56
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Old 10-12-2011, 11:14 PM   #57
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I assumed it was missing punctuation. "It just takes one, man."
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Old 10-12-2011, 11:40 PM   #58
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huh.

now that I see your post, I think that was what I was saying, literally out loud, but not typing.

I think the meaning is clear, the point is that he's not gonna get "women" to lurve him, but if he can get one "woman", he'd be good to go. That's less impossible, eh?
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Old 10-19-2011, 06:36 PM   #59
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I think the meaning is clear, the point is that he's not gonna get "women" to lurve him, but if he can get one "woman", he'd be good to go. That's less impossible, eh?
I'm somewhat worried about the quotes you put around woman. What kind of woman-substitute are we talking about here?
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Old 10-19-2011, 09:39 PM   #60
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What kind of woman-substitute are we talking about here? ... and how much does she charge
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