I think somebody needs a nap.

[dar512]

First let me say that it is obvious that Quzah does need to get more sleep. Either that or he's naturally cranky.

Second. I know my kids. I know them better than I know anyone else [even my wife] because I'm in the business of helping them become the best people they can be.

There are situations where they start complaining about stuff that I know would not bother them if they were not tired. Often it's stuff they know better than to complain about in the first place - chores, homework, etc. When they were younger and this happened, I sent them to their rooms for a nap.

Now that they are older, I tell them I won't discuss the issue until they get more rest and that they will be going to bed early that night.

BTW, I have been in situations with my kids where I was the one that was tired and cranky. I apologized to my kids and sent myself to bed for a nap.

Third. As I recall you have a baby in the house. Yes? I am already getting enjoyment out of visualizing you handling this situation with your own child.

Fourth. The way you write it, it sounds like your parents were sneering or making fun of you when they said it. That might be what is really bothering you. I never talk down to my kids and didn't even when they were toddlers. Children are not tiny adults, but they do deserve to be treated with respect.