4 behaviors that will kill a marriage

Ocean's Edge · 05-10-2013, 11:36 AM

My ex could manage all 4 in a single sentence.

I recall the first time my ex and I went off to see the marriage counselor - he had us fill in a questionnaire to which he said "if you do not make some serious changes in your relationship now - you will not be married in 5 years. It might be 6 months it might be 4 and a half years, but you will not be married in 5"

He then told my ex he had to be committed to making the process work, if he was only there to make me happy - it wouldn't work, and whether or not he ever came back was up to him.... not me nagging him.

He was still shocked when I left him within 6 months.

05-10-2013, 11:36 AM	#1
Ocean's Edge is a beach Join Date: Apr 2013 Location: One step back from the end of the world Posts: 245	My ex could manage all 4 in a single sentence. I recall the first time my ex and I went off to see the marriage counselor - he had us fill in a questionnaire to which he said "if you do not make some serious changes in your relationship now - you will not be married in 5 years. It might be 6 months it might be 4 and a half years, but you will not be married in 5" He then told my ex he had to be committed to making the process work, if he was only there to make me happy - it wouldn't work, and whether or not he ever came back was up to him.... not me nagging him. He was still shocked when I left him within 6 months. __________________ *Schrodinger's cat is a koan.*

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