Foreplay, lets talk about it - Page 4

justme · 03-19-2004, 09:25 AM

Well,if girls started bleeding after sex, that means you ARE big

Or they were virgin

wolf · 03-19-2004, 10:49 AM

Or they lied ... avoidance without bruising the sensitive male ego.

justme · 03-19-2004, 10:56 AM

I don't think so. Women can find another reason to avoide the sex
without bruising the sensitive male ego.

Even more,some women don't tell they have a pain untill it's too painful.

headsplice · 03-19-2004, 02:37 PM

Lore sums it up nicely for me.

Torrere · 03-19-2004, 10:20 PM

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Originally posted by Sun_Sparkz
NO WAY! 4play is the best bit! there is no main without the entree, or at least a pre-dinner drink is called for.

I read in trusty cleo that men can climax within 2 minits of being aroused, whereas it taken women 6 times that amount of time! think about it guys.. it has to be fair.

I've heard this in various forms for years, but the Kinsey Institute report on Sexual Behavior in the Human Female disagrees. According to the Kinsey Institute, during masturbation women do not take longer ( ~2 minutes) than men do to reach climax. The difference is that A) men are sufficiently aroused to climax by the time that they start having sex and B) women are more easily distracted during sex.

headsplice · 03-22-2004, 04:49 PM

Wasn't Kinsey in some of their conclusions due to bad data, though? I seem to remember hearing their conclusion on average length of the male member was most likely too high, but no one is willing to do that kind of study anymore, so it can't be disproven.

Torrere · 03-26-2004, 02:42 AM

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Originally posted by headsplice
Wasn't Kinsey in some of their conclusions due to bad data, though? I seem to remember hearing their conclusion on average length of the male member was most likely too high, but no one is willing to do that kind of study anymore, so it can't be disproven.

I did a brief check on Google, and didn't find anything on that. On the contray, I found this on Wikipedia:

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The only reliable penis-size studies commonly quoted in the literature are the Kinsey study, the UCSF study, and an Italian study, none of which even attempted to correlate size with race.

and this somewhere else.

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Kinsey found out the hard way that his detractors were numerous. Shortly after the Report was released, the National Research Council contracted the American Statistical Association to examine Kinsey's findings in detail. This study of Kinsey's methods took 6 years to complete, and by the time it was finished, much of the financial support for Kinsey's research had been lost. However, the ASA concluded that Kinsey had done some of the best work ever in his field.

Anyway, I feel that I have learned a lot from the portion of that book that I have read so far.

As an extension of my previous post, one thing that the Kinsey Report mentions occasionally is that women are not psychologically stimulated nearly so easily as men are.

Torrere · 03-26-2004, 02:43 AM

Apparently several 'moral conservative religious' groups have made it their goal to refute the data in the Kinsey reports.

limey · 03-26-2004, 03:23 AM

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Originally posted by Torrere
As an extension of my previous post ....

Is it just me, or does anyone else think this is funny in the context?

lumberjim · 03-26-2004, 07:00 AM

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Originally posted by limey

Is it just me, or does anyone else think this is funny in the context?

this wasn't bad either:

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Kinsey found out the hard way

jaguar · 03-26-2004, 02:54 PM

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Reminds me of a throw-a-hot-dog-down-a-hallway moment I had in college. Intense makeout session, increasingly awesome foreplay, couldn't stand it anymore had to have it now.....then she's like, "are you in?"

I have to ask, out of morbid curiosity what the hell you did? What do you say to that?

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She can practice with a "toy", starting with small ones and moving to larger width, if that's the issue, or longer length, etc. My gyno recommended this for me. That way, when you get back together, it won't hurt, and she isn't as .. um.. tense.

That's good advice (speaking from experience here). The biggest problem is it becomes circular - she gets tense about it and can't stay in the mood, as soon as it comes time she gets tense, literally. Defusing that is bloody hard a takes time and patience.

mrnoodle · 03-26-2004, 04:04 PM

re:hotdog/hallway.

I don't really remember what I said. I think we both kind of had a moment of blinding clarity that was kind of embarrassing for both of us. Sometimes you're just physically incompatible, and there's nothing wrong with either of you. But we stayed friends, and still had the occasional fling -- just no actual intercourse.

qtpatootie14 · 04-17-2004, 11:13 AM

in my opinion i think foreplay is great. It gets ya in the mood ya know?

I guess everyone is different...but when me and my bf umm...yea...well we like to foreplay a lil bit....it spices things up

xoxoxoBruce · 04-17-2004, 06:05 PM

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Originally posted by qtpatootie14
in my opinion i think foreplay is great. It gets ya in the mood ya know?

I guess everyone is different...but when me and my bf umm...yea...well we like to foreplay a lil bit....it spices things up

Good move, never race with a cold motor.

qtpatootie14 · 04-17-2004, 06:33 PM

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Originally posted by xoxoxoBruce
Good move, never race with a cold motor.

EXACTALLY!! You NEVER want to race with a cold motor...hehe

Where's the fun when u do that??

03-19-2004, 10:49 AM	#47
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03-19-2004, 02:37 PM	#49
headsplice Relaxed Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Minneapolis Posts: 676	RE: Tongue fu Lore sums it up nicely for me. __________________ Don't Panic

03-22-2004, 04:49 PM	#51
headsplice Relaxed Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Minneapolis Posts: 676	Wasn't Kinsey in some of their conclusions due to bad data, though? I seem to remember hearing their conclusion on average length of the male member was most likely too high, but no one is willing to do that kind of study anymore, so it can't be disproven. __________________ Don't Panic

03-19-2004, 09:25 AM	#46
justme Belt Conveyor Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: USA Posts: 66	Well,if girls started bleeding after sex, that means you ARE big Or they were virgin

03-19-2004, 10:56 AM	#48
justme Belt Conveyor Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: USA Posts: 66	I don't think so. Women can find another reason to avoide the sex without bruising the sensitive male ego. Even more,some women don't tell they have a pain untill it's too painful.

03-26-2004, 02:43 AM	#53
Torrere a real smartass Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Kirkland, WA Posts: 1,121	Apparently several 'moral conservative religious' groups have made it their goal to refute the data in the Kinsey reports.

03-26-2004, 04:04 PM	#57
mrnoodle bent Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: under the weather Posts: 2,656	re:hotdog/hallway. I don't really remember what I said. I think we both kind of had a moment of blinding clarity that was kind of embarrassing for both of us. Sometimes you're just physically incompatible, and there's nothing wrong with either of you. But we stayed friends, and still had the occasional fling -- just no actual intercourse.

04-17-2004, 11:13 AM	#58
qtpatootie14 Confounded Conjuror Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Corpus Christi Texas Posts: 33	in my opinion i think foreplay is great. It gets ya in the mood ya know? I guess everyone is different...but when me and my bf umm...yea...well we like to foreplay a lil bit....it spices things up

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