Is it OK to ask people about their reproductive plans?

infinite monkey · 01-02-2016, 09:12 PM

Oh hail. I was asked, when I was young and engaged to be married, when I was gonna start having kids. I said I wasn't sure I was going to. "Won't you regret that someday? " Maybe, but not a good reason for now. Won't we think of the children?

Great parents are great but those of us who have made other choices have mostly done so without our head in the clouds, and with every bit of knowledge that it is the right choice for us. Wish I could've been that other girl, but I'm not.

01-02-2016, 09:12 PM	#1
infinite monkey Person who doesn't update the user title Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 13,002	Oh hail. I was asked, when I was young and engaged to be married, when I was gonna start having kids. I said I wasn't sure I was going to. "Won't you regret that someday? " Maybe, but not a good reason for now. Won't we think of the children? Great parents are great but those of us who have made other choices have mostly done so without our head in the clouds, and with every bit of knowledge that it is the right choice for us. Wish I could've been that other girl, but I'm not.

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