Potential sub looking for guidance

[kaykatiekay]

Originally Posted by jimhelm

this is a platonic sub.

she just wants to be friends.

I'm curious at the motivation of this person. assuming, for now that they are legit.

K, was you father very dominant? did you lose him recently?

Hi jimhelm Glad you understood my post Also, thanks for not immediately discrediting me as troll/attention-seeker/whatever

To be honest, I'm not really sure about my motivation it sort of feels like being submissive is something that has always been a part of me although it's not until I got older that I learnt what it meant. I've always been quite sensitive and caring for others etc. it just feels natural to me. As for my father, as far as I'm aware he's not a dominant and my parents are still together. In fact, they both have pretty strong personalities which can lead to a lot of heated arguments over little things. Sometimes I think that if one of them just stepped down from the argument everything would be much better! Maybe that has something to do with it...