I have been in your situation Duckie. I too have tried to sabotage every relationship I have been in. For many different reasons and I think I went through every reason that Stormie came up with at some point or another!

But then... I got lucky.

The guy that I am now with for over a year has totally made me see that I shouldn't attempt to push him away because that's silly of me. And trust me, I sure did try to get him to go. So I guess the point of this was just to give you some hope and 'kia kaha'. Maori for 'stay strong'.
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Originally Posted by rkzenrage
If you get really lucky, you will get one that recognizes what you are doing and they will laugh at your attempt to push them away and just say "stop it and get over here". Very few us us get that lucky.
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That inspired me. Thanks rkzenrage