The 24 hour engagement. - Page 20

ZenGum · 06-12-2009, 01:30 AM

Yeah, not exactly a chick-magnet babe-lair, is it?

xoxoxoBruce · 06-12-2009, 01:30 AM

Au contraire, what you need is a harem.

limey · 06-12-2009, 02:33 AM

Hey, dis! I'll be thinking of you.
(When you're finished at your place, do you want to come over and clean up mine (nothing improper here, just cleaning on offer!).
Be good to yourself!

DanaC · 06-12-2009, 05:38 AM

Be well Dis. Time will take you far from this.

classicman · 06-12-2009, 08:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by disenchanted

I've not heard anything from her.
-dis

I think the silence is deafening actually. She is saying an awful lot by not saying anything. If she really cared would she leave you hanging in some sort of sick limbo like this for all this time? Would she let you dangle there knowing how you feel?
I think she is clearly saying that she doesn't care enough to cut you loose and allow you to heal and move on.
Thats what I hear, but as my tag line says...
"Hey, my views aren't popular, they're just mine."

capnhowdy · 06-12-2009, 07:01 PM

I hope I'm wrong, but I don't think you're the only one she's stringing along. Been there. Been done like that. Learned fairly quickly. A one lesson course, so to speak. Graduated at the head of my class.

Beestie · 06-12-2009, 09:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by disenchanted

I've not heard anything from her.

Lucky you. She must have found some other guy willing to let her drag him face down through the mud.

For some girls, that's their idea of a relationship.

disenchanted · 06-12-2009, 10:39 PM

beestie, capnhowdy: I guess that's what's changing in me. Not so much a "Gosh, I hope she hasn't found some other guy", but a "I hope I learn from this, whatever it was."

Beestie · 06-13-2009, 12:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by disenchanted

beestie, capnhowdy: I guess that's what's changing in me. Not so much a "Gosh, I hope she hasn't found some other guy", but a "I hope I learn from this, whatever it was."

We all hope so too. Life is too short to go thru that shit twice.

morethanpretty · 06-13-2009, 10:09 PM

She sounds broken. Don't waste anymore time or energy thinking about what went wrong. Put your energy into fixin yourself and get back out there.
Trust me I am a doctor.

disenchanted · 06-28-2009, 05:49 PM

So I was sitting at a coffeehouse this morning reading a book, looked up and saw an attractive lady in a sundress walk by. So I smiled at her and thought of this place.

A brief update:

I bought a bicycle a couple weeks ago and have been riding like a fiend. 30 miles this weekend alone. I figure I've spent enough of my life sitting on the couch, plus it gives me time to think and an outlet for all the emotional crap that's been stirring. Besides, what's the worst that can happen, I get in shape?

I've not heard from the ex, nor have I tried talking to her. I'm moving on with my life.

Thanks to all of you for the words.

-dis

ZenGum · 06-28-2009, 06:13 PM

Good move Dis.

Clodfobble · 06-28-2009, 06:16 PM

Good for you, dis. You'll do just fine.

Thanks for the update.

capnhowdy · 06-28-2009, 08:20 PM

Yep. You got it now. Good luck. Keep us posted.

lumberjim · 06-28-2009, 08:42 PM

post a picture of yourself

06-12-2009, 01:30 AM	#286
ZenGum Doctor Wtf Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Badelaide, Baustralia Posts: 12,861	Yeah, not exactly a chick-magnet babe-lair, is it? __________________ Shut up and hug. MoreThanPretty, Nov 5, 2008. Just because I'm nominally polite, does not make me a pussy. Sundae Girl.

06-12-2009, 01:30 AM	#287
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	Au contraire, what you need is a harem. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

06-12-2009, 02:33 AM	#288
limey Encroaching on your decrees Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: An island within the south-west coast of Scotland Posts: 7,016	Hey, dis! I'll be thinking of you. (When you're finished at your place, do you want to come over and clean up mine (nothing improper here, just cleaning on offer!). Be good to yourself! __________________ Living it up on the edge ... of civilisation, within the southwest coast of

06-12-2009, 07:01 PM	#291
capnhowdy Blatantly Homosapien Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 6,200	I hope I'm wrong, but I don't think you're the only one she's stringing along. Been there. Been done like that. Learned fairly quickly. A one lesson course, so to speak. Graduated at the head of my class. __________________ Please type slowly. I can't read very fast............... and no holy water, please.

06-13-2009, 10:09 PM	#295
morethanpretty Thats "Miss Zipper Neck" to you. Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: little town (but not the littlest) in texas Posts: 2,957	She sounds broken. Don't waste anymore time or energy thinking about what went wrong. Put your energy into fixin yourself and get back out there. Trust me I am a doctor. __________________ Addicts may suck dick for coke, but love came up with the idea to put a dick in there to begin with. -Jack O'Brien

06-12-2009, 10:39 PM	#293
disenchanted Resident President Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 81	beestie, capnhowdy: I guess that's what's changing in me. Not so much a "Gosh, I hope she hasn't found some other guy", but a "I hope I learn from this, whatever it was."

06-28-2009, 05:49 PM	#296
disenchanted Resident President Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 81	So I was sitting at a coffeehouse this morning reading a book, looked up and saw an attractive lady in a sundress walk by. So I smiled at her and thought of this place. A brief update: I bought a bicycle a couple weeks ago and have been riding like a fiend. 30 miles this weekend alone. I figure I've spent enough of my life sitting on the couch, plus it gives me time to think and an outlet for all the emotional crap that's been stirring. Besides, what's the worst that can happen, I get in shape? I've not heard from the ex, nor have I tried talking to her. I'm moving on with my life. Thanks to all of you for the words. -dis

06-28-2009, 06:13 PM	#297
ZenGum Doctor Wtf Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Badelaide, Baustralia Posts: 12,861	Good move Dis. __________________ Shut up and hug. MoreThanPretty, Nov 5, 2008. Just because I'm nominally polite, does not make me a pussy. Sundae Girl.

06-28-2009, 06:16 PM	#298
Clodfobble UNDER CONDITIONAL MITIGATION Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 20,012	Good for you, dis. You'll do just fine. Thanks for the update. __________________ My book My other book My spirit animal

06-28-2009, 08:20 PM	#299
capnhowdy Blatantly Homosapien Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 6,200	Yep. You got it now. Good luck. Keep us posted. __________________ Please type slowly. I can't read very fast............... and no holy water, please.

06-28-2009, 08:42 PM	#300
lumberjim I can hear my ears Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 25,571	post a picture of yourself __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality Embrace this moment, remember We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion ~MJKeenan

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