I Just Can't Stand It

[glatt]

Originally Posted by infinite monkey

I don't talk about her because it seems to me that it's been a topic of discussion that I have no right to mourn her.

Only a bit more subtle than my friend telling me to shut up because she didn't care what I was talking about.

It must be real subtle, because I missed it entirely. I don't recall seeing anything like that anywhere. Can you point to a link? You have every right to mourn her, and I don't think anyone had any expectation that you were her keeper and could somehow prevent it. She had free will and was going to do what she was going to do. If we could turn back the clock, we would all do things differently, but we did the best we could at the time.