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The 24 hour engagement.

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disenchanted The 24 hour engagement. 05-17-2009, 04:04 PM

xoxoxoBruce Consider yourself lucky she... 05-17-2009, 04:16 PM

disenchanted been together 'bout a year... 05-17-2009, 04:37 PM

Guest Sounds like her first... 05-17-2009, 04:47 PM

lumberjim how old are you two? 05-17-2009, 06:37 PM

disenchanted I'm 33, she's 28. 05-17-2009, 07:17 PM

lumberjim tough to give any advice with... 05-17-2009, 07:41 PM

Clodfobble Soon? Marriage is supposed to... 05-17-2009, 08:29 PM

BigV Noted. 05-17-2009, 10:04 PM

disenchanted Tiki: I completely understand... 05-18-2009, 02:11 AM

xoxoxoBruce Yeah, a kick in the balls... 05-18-2009, 04:10 AM

lumberjim AH....I was referring to... 05-18-2009, 08:03 AM

Guest Highly creative and... 05-18-2009, 12:58 PM

lumberjim Is that 'crazy chix sp33k'... 05-18-2009, 01:01 PM

Guest That's the other aspect I was... 05-18-2009, 12:55 PM

ZenGum :comfort: I don't have... 05-18-2009, 03:02 AM

Alluvial I wish I had said this to my... 05-18-2009, 11:52 AM

Pie No, just "You're boring and... 05-18-2009, 01:09 PM

Guest I didn't flounce off anywhere... 05-18-2009, 01:17 PM

Pie (Tiki, sorry if it didn't... 05-18-2009, 01:35 PM

Guest Thanks, hon. :hug: 05-18-2009, 01:40 PM

lumberjim well...i AM very... 05-18-2009, 01:11 PM

lumberjim i wasnt basing it on this... 05-18-2009, 01:19 PM

Guest I'm in the middle of a... 05-18-2009, 01:39 PM

lumberjim you wanna piece a me? ... 05-18-2009, 02:27 PM

Guest Because clearly, you're a... 05-18-2009, 02:40 PM

Pie "You can't handle the truth!"... 05-18-2009, 03:00 PM

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Undertoad Everything said already seems... 05-18-2009, 01:35 PM

Guest Why is there not a hug... 05-18-2009, 01:40 PM

Undertoad Find one I'll add it 05-18-2009, 01:52 PM

Undertoad Maybe? ... 05-18-2009, 02:01 PM

Undertoad http://cellar.org/2009/hug2.gi... 05-18-2009, 02:04 PM

Guest I like both of 'em! Cute. 05-18-2009, 02:39 PM

lumberjim that's true..... I DO try... 05-18-2009, 02:57 PM

Guest What is up your butt? Do you... 05-18-2009, 03:02 PM

lumberjim well. it began as a kind of a... 05-18-2009, 03:46 PM

Clodfobble We're women. Duh. 05-18-2009, 03:50 PM

Shawnee123 Why yes jim, yes we have. ... 05-18-2009, 03:50 PM

Queen of the Ryche Disenchanted: RUN!!! Sorry.... 05-18-2009, 04:08 PM

Guest Thanks, Queen. I think he... 05-18-2009, 07:44 PM

monster there are no serious threads... 05-18-2009, 08:59 PM

lumberjim i did try being nice to you. ... 05-18-2009, 09:10 PM

Pie Zen, it takes a little... 05-18-2009, 08:33 PM

ZenGum Of course. I like the... 05-18-2009, 09:33 PM

Guest :) thanks. 05-19-2009, 02:41 AM

Aliantha There are serious threads on... 05-18-2009, 09:01 PM

monster ooh that picture was rather... 05-18-2009, 09:18 PM

monster but to return to the OP,... 05-18-2009, 09:32 PM

Aliantha I guess it's a matter of... 05-18-2009, 10:34 PM

disenchanted Uh, I'm in no place to say... 05-19-2009, 02:00 AM

xoxoxoBruce It's a good sign, man, a good... 05-19-2009, 02:36 AM

Guest I tried. And I hope it all... 05-19-2009, 02:41 AM

disenchanted so hey, let me try to drag... 05-19-2009, 02:43 AM

Guest My advice was not based on... 05-19-2009, 02:47 AM

limey hey there, disenchanted! How... 05-19-2009, 05:27 AM

xoxoxoBruce One doesn't, unless given an... 05-19-2009, 06:41 AM

DanaC That is so true. 05-19-2009, 07:04 AM

Undertoad Dis, yeah... we are better at... 05-19-2009, 08:32 AM

xoxoxoBruce And were really good at... 05-19-2009, 11:08 AM

disenchanted today's epiphany: If she's... 05-19-2009, 10:25 PM

monster Don't text......... jeeze ... 05-19-2009, 11:02 PM

limey This is good - it does take... 05-20-2009, 03:44 AM

DucksNuts I agree with Limey, it does... 05-20-2009, 05:28 AM

Guest I disagree that it would be... 05-20-2009, 12:27 PM

lumberjim "I can't marry you, and we... 05-19-2009, 10:40 PM

disenchanted lumberjim: think what you... 05-19-2009, 10:58 PM

monster someone else could be a mate... 05-19-2009, 11:04 PM

lumberjim i did not say go get a... 05-19-2009, 11:01 PM

disenchanted A funny thing that seems to... 05-19-2009, 11:11 PM

monster sorry, I guess I came off a... 05-19-2009, 11:15 PM

lumberjim regardless of what you're... 05-19-2009, 11:18 PM

Guest My advice would be not to... 05-19-2009, 11:11 PM

monster ..but when diving back in (to... 05-19-2009, 11:16 PM

Aliantha Congrats monster. dis, I... 05-19-2009, 11:20 PM

disenchanted lumberjim: I found this place... 05-19-2009, 11:52 PM

xoxoxoBruce OK, but make sure you hide... 05-20-2009, 12:10 AM

Guest I wish I could say that I... 05-20-2009, 01:24 AM

DanaC Repeated painful rehashes... 05-20-2009, 12:32 PM

Guest I don't know how much they've... 05-20-2009, 12:53 PM

Shawnee123 So why's he askin' us? ... 05-20-2009, 12:56 PM

Pie I would say that she does owe... 05-20-2009, 02:07 PM

Guest Assuming there was really no... 05-20-2009, 02:14 PM

Pico and ME Its possible that she has... 05-20-2009, 05:46 PM

Guest Or, she may have realized... 05-20-2009, 07:31 PM

disenchanted The additional dialogue was... 05-20-2009, 08:06 PM

Guest Speaking solely for myself, I... 05-20-2009, 08:40 PM

Aliantha I don't think it's betrayal. ... 05-20-2009, 08:46 PM

Guest Her feelings and his... 05-20-2009, 09:06 PM

disenchanted tiki: I'd be with you on the... 05-20-2009, 09:14 PM

Guest Oh, ok... I misunderstood,... 05-20-2009, 09:20 PM

disenchanted tiki: it was no lie. I was... 05-20-2009, 09:16 PM

Guest You obviously did not... 05-20-2009, 09:33 PM

Perry Winkle I've felt this same thing.... 05-23-2009, 08:36 AM

disenchanted Compare that with: "Don't... 05-20-2009, 10:01 PM

Aliantha If it's any consolation I... 05-20-2009, 10:19 PM

ZenGum Moustache-twirling, railroad... 05-20-2009, 11:20 PM

xoxoxoBruce Yeah, he'll be OK as soon as... 05-21-2009, 01:35 AM

Guest I'm just trying to explain... 05-21-2009, 01:50 AM

Pico and ME Damn Tiki....let it go... 05-21-2009, 07:42 AM

Guest http://sinmonkey.com/files/Mar... 05-21-2009, 10:13 AM

Guest I take it Pico is the guy who... 05-21-2009, 10:17 AM

Pico and ME And its a good thing that... 05-21-2009, 11:07 AM

Guest Oooh look, another... 05-21-2009, 11:12 AM

Guest Don't forget to put on clean... 05-21-2009, 11:13 AM

daff0dil so umm yeah. I just reread... 05-21-2009, 11:49 AM

Pico and ME Tiki, you post yourself in a... 05-21-2009, 11:51 AM

Guest Maybe you should start a new... 05-21-2009, 11:56 AM

BigV Is her posting bothering you?... 05-21-2009, 12:29 PM

Pico and ME No. No. No. Just me being... 05-21-2009, 12:41 PM

Guest Pico. Playing the "Who's a... 05-21-2009, 03:22 PM

Kaliayev Logic? On MY internets? ... 05-21-2009, 03:50 PM

Pico and ME Tiki, I would probably like... 05-21-2009, 04:12 PM

Guest Do you feel my posts in this... 05-21-2009, 06:16 PM

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Aliantha I think what you do a lot of... 05-21-2009, 07:06 PM

lumberjim YEAH...we could all ignore... 05-21-2009, 01:16 PM

lumberjim you're just itching aren't... 05-21-2009, 03:47 PM

BigV Must you say *everything* you... 05-21-2009, 04:09 PM

Undertoad this is the LJ we know and... 05-21-2009, 05:23 PM

lumberjim lick it 05-21-2009, 05:24 PM

BigV Fixed that for you. 05-21-2009, 05:37 PM

lumberjim i'M HOLDING MY BREATH AS I... 05-21-2009, 04:10 PM

BigV I know you well enough to... 05-21-2009, 04:44 PM

lumberjim I must admit that I'm curious... 05-21-2009, 05:14 PM

morethanpretty disenchanted- I think you... 05-21-2009, 04:33 PM

lumberjim is it this... 05-21-2009, 05:23 PM

Undertoad present it. 05-21-2009, 05:27 PM

lumberjim http://cellar.org/picture.php?... 05-21-2009, 05:29 PM

lumberjim are you saying you don't love... 05-21-2009, 05:55 PM

Pico and ME Actually, here I thought you... 05-21-2009, 06:24 PM

Guest Oh. I was trying to clarify... 05-21-2009, 07:49 PM

Aliantha I used to do a lot of that... 05-21-2009, 08:23 PM

Guest It's not like I can stop... 05-21-2009, 09:47 PM

disenchanted tiki: By all means, if I've... 05-21-2009, 10:16 PM

Guest No, I was trying to explain... 05-21-2009, 11:03 PM

Guest But maybe you did everything... 05-21-2009, 11:04 PM

disenchanted See, here's why I keep... 05-21-2009, 11:39 PM

disenchanted daff0dil: I hear you on the... 05-22-2009, 01:30 AM

Guest You don't seem interested in... 05-22-2009, 01:31 AM

disenchanted tiki: I heard you the first... 05-22-2009, 01:37 AM

xoxoxoBruce Yes but you haven't praised... 05-22-2009, 01:42 AM

Guest No wonder she doesn't want to... 05-22-2009, 01:39 AM

disenchanted tiki: Clearly there's plenty... 05-22-2009, 01:48 AM

limey Disenchanted - may I say how... 05-22-2009, 02:46 AM

Guest Ppphhhhffft! :lol: It's not... 05-22-2009, 02:26 AM

disenchanted tiki: Like I said, I've got a... 05-22-2009, 02:42 AM

Guest Already been through hell,... 05-22-2009, 03:00 AM

disenchanted limey: Thanks, well... 05-22-2009, 02:55 AM

disenchanted tiki: Good for you. I'm glad... 05-22-2009, 03:04 AM

Guest I'm not always right, and I... 05-22-2009, 03:47 AM

DucksNuts Errr...ok Dis - good plan... 05-22-2009, 06:08 AM

Queen of the Ryche Big hugs Dis - Us womenfolk... 05-22-2009, 10:06 AM

daff0dil oh man, this is all painful... 05-22-2009, 11:17 AM

lumberjim back to the loch with yooo,... 05-22-2009, 11:38 AM

daff0dil yeah, I think that's a good... 05-22-2009, 01:43 PM

DanaC daffodil, that really made... 05-22-2009, 02:05 PM

BigV Hey disenchanted: Man, I... 05-22-2009, 02:05 PM

kerosene Very lucid and thought... 05-22-2009, 03:09 PM

BigV Thank you, case, for the... 05-22-2009, 03:25 PM

Sundae Dis - just to say I went... 05-22-2009, 04:25 PM

disenchanted So I allowed myself to call... 05-22-2009, 08:19 PM

BigV Good for you. You're... 05-23-2009, 01:13 PM

lumberjim sometimes people say they... 05-22-2009, 08:38 PM

Shawnee123 Heh, I was going to say... ... 05-22-2009, 08:44 PM

lumberjim yeah...i wasn't complaining... 05-22-2009, 08:47 PM

Shawnee123 I'm not complaining about it... 05-22-2009, 08:54 PM

xoxoxoBruce I wouldn't be so sure he... 05-23-2009, 12:49 AM

Sundae Unless you have a homeless... 05-23-2009, 04:00 AM

Shawnee123 Zinngggggg... ;) So true. 05-23-2009, 12:06 PM

classicman He took action. Whether it... 05-23-2009, 12:55 AM

limey What he said ... 05-23-2009, 03:05 AM

disenchanted sundae girl: I hear you.... 05-23-2009, 04:23 AM

DucksNuts You can pissed (drunk) with... 05-23-2009, 06:37 AM

capnhowdy Interesting. Also... 05-23-2009, 02:17 PM

Pie Well, that would make sense,... 05-23-2009, 02:32 PM

Sundae Who you going to ask about... 05-23-2009, 04:11 PM

Pico and ME All I remember is looking for... 05-23-2009, 04:15 PM

Pie SG, it's Memorial Day on... 05-23-2009, 04:17 PM

Sundae Ah, thank you. We do all... 05-23-2009, 04:20 PM

xoxoxoBruce So do we, November 11th we... 05-24-2009, 04:00 AM

DanaC And if it's sunny, we spend... 05-24-2009, 04:05 AM

Kaliayev Or stuck in traffic, trying... 05-24-2009, 09:29 AM

monster memorial day weekend is all... 05-24-2009, 10:17 AM

Sundae Taking advantage of the... 05-24-2009, 10:31 AM

Kaliayev I've used the weather to hang... 05-24-2009, 11:12 AM

disenchanted and here comes the next phase... 05-27-2009, 02:09 AM

limey So sorry, disenchanted. 05-27-2009, 06:49 AM

classicman Take that energy and use it... 05-27-2009, 08:11 AM

Pico and ME In this situation, anger can... 05-27-2009, 09:39 AM

capnhowdy I say grab another pony and... 05-27-2009, 04:00 PM

disenchanted As soon as I think one thing,... 05-28-2009, 12:19 AM

xoxoxoBruce Head games? :eyebrow: 05-28-2009, 12:24 AM

disenchanted So I sent her a text at lunch... 05-29-2009, 02:28 AM

Beestie I can help you with that: it... 05-29-2009, 06:37 AM

capnhowdy Translation: "Stand by for me... 05-29-2009, 07:11 AM

kerosene This was my first thought,... 05-29-2009, 09:49 AM

Pico and ME What Cap and Beestie said. 05-29-2009, 08:39 AM

classicman I'm sorry to say that I ... 05-29-2009, 09:06 AM

Undertoad You owe it to her to wait for... 05-29-2009, 09:22 AM

limey Another vote for the "Turn... 05-29-2009, 09:41 AM

glatt Her request for more time is... 05-29-2009, 09:56 AM

dar512 You've seen the movie War... 05-29-2009, 09:48 AM

Beestie Alternatively, he did see it... 05-29-2009, 09:56 AM

dar512 If so, bad idea. Bad, bad,... 05-29-2009, 09:59 AM

kerosene If that is the case, at least... 05-29-2009, 10:05 AM

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Clodfobble I don't personally think... 05-29-2009, 01:10 PM

Undertoad No matter what her actual... 05-29-2009, 01:25 PM

disenchanted at this point, I'm not... 05-29-2009, 07:44 PM

Undertoad Yikes! OK trust me on this,... 05-30-2009, 01:12 AM

Pie At my last company, it was... 05-30-2009, 03:35 PM

xoxoxoBruce Here is the solution... 05-30-2009, 07:57 PM

monster don't bother asking her the... 05-29-2009, 07:49 PM

disenchanted monster: you missed "It's not... 05-29-2009, 07:55 PM

limey That's the one the... 05-30-2009, 03:33 AM

monster i wasn't sure if you were... 05-29-2009, 08:22 PM

Shawnee123 I believe in honesty, but I... 05-30-2009, 01:08 PM

xoxoxoBruce Aw c'mon, just once?... 05-30-2009, 01:12 PM

Shawnee123 :muse: 05-30-2009, 01:15 PM

ZenGum Monster may well be both the... 05-30-2009, 08:16 PM

Hoof Hearted My apologies if this has... 05-31-2009, 12:06 AM

disenchanted The big question for me right... 05-31-2009, 07:19 PM

monster Would you also ask "how tight... 05-31-2009, 08:55 PM

Pie D'oh! :smack: 05-31-2009, 11:33 PM

classicman The answer to that question... 05-31-2009, 07:24 PM

capnhowdy I think you are addicted to... 05-31-2009, 07:30 PM

Pie I did once have a guy come... 05-31-2009, 08:28 PM

disenchanted I don't have the distance... 05-31-2009, 09:09 PM

classicman Its not that you are walking... 05-31-2009, 09:54 PM

xoxoxoBruce It means you had not... 05-31-2009, 11:40 PM

limey I agree with these people.... 06-01-2009, 04:59 AM

Clodfobble I think you are doing an... 05-31-2009, 09:51 PM

BigV I agree completely. 05-31-2009, 11:24 PM

classicman Oh and if you have some pent... 06-01-2009, 08:41 AM

Aliantha Dis, have you found posting... 06-01-2009, 05:35 PM

disenchanted aliantha: Most of the advice... 06-01-2009, 09:20 PM

Stormieweather You've said you thought it... 06-01-2009, 09:33 PM

Aliantha dis, I think no matter who... 06-01-2009, 10:08 PM

disenchanted aliantha: It's a salient... 06-01-2009, 10:18 PM

Aliantha Fair enough. I think it's... 06-01-2009, 10:27 PM

monster dis, why did you post... 06-02-2009, 12:22 AM

disenchanted And thus is the nature of my... 06-02-2009, 12:23 AM

xoxoxoBruce That's more common than you... 06-02-2009, 12:37 AM

disenchanted monster: I'm just looking for... 06-02-2009, 12:31 AM

disenchanted well, I guess, in fairness, I... 06-02-2009, 01:53 AM

DanaC I don't like to get to... 06-02-2009, 04:54 AM

Undertoad I've already voted game... 06-02-2009, 08:19 AM

classicman Very good reply Dana, you... 06-02-2009, 08:27 AM

xoxoxoBruce Post #6. 06-02-2009, 10:05 AM

classicman thanks Bruce. I missed that.... 06-02-2009, 10:40 AM

daff0dil This is much more clear than... 06-02-2009, 01:51 PM

Clodfobble It's because we all forget.... 06-02-2009, 03:23 PM

disenchanted Clodfobble, daff0dil: I hear... 06-03-2009, 01:37 AM

glatt Whoa. ZenGum already covered... 06-03-2009, 08:16 AM

ZenGum My reading : Test: say you... 06-03-2009, 01:52 AM

classicman She = Fail. You are... 06-03-2009, 07:36 AM

Undertoad Well count me as pop... 06-03-2009, 08:39 AM

Trilby OR a promiscuous drug abuser!... 06-03-2009, 09:59 AM

kerosene That explains a lot. 06-03-2009, 10:24 AM

Shawnee123 That is no way to live...in... 06-03-2009, 08:39 AM

classicman Yeh really - look at all of... 06-03-2009, 09:11 AM

Clodfobble Or if Dad is loving and... 06-03-2009, 07:27 PM

disenchanted Part of me wants to move... 06-03-2009, 09:06 PM

classicman ...or she wants to keep you... 06-03-2009, 10:07 PM

disenchanted classicman: yeah, I was kind... 06-03-2009, 10:25 PM

DanaC Nobility has no place in... 06-04-2009, 06:53 AM

monster Hey dis, are you a pack-rat... 06-04-2009, 09:20 PM

disenchanted Used to be...after the... 06-04-2009, 09:25 PM

monster because I'm a packrat type... 06-04-2009, 09:27 PM

Shawnee123 heheheee, I'm a packrat... 06-05-2009, 09:55 AM

DanaC lol. We musthave been... 06-05-2009, 11:06 AM

disenchanted I think this is less me being... 06-04-2009, 09:50 PM

Aliantha dis, I think if you have to... 06-04-2009, 10:07 PM

disenchanted I was the one kid in... 06-04-2009, 10:16 PM

xoxoxoBruce Here you go.... 06-05-2009, 12:33 AM

monster ssssshhhhh. people will... 06-05-2009, 10:12 AM

Aliantha So dis...how're things going... 06-11-2009, 07:35 PM

disenchanted I've not heard anything from... 06-11-2009, 09:58 PM

classicman I think the silence is... 06-12-2009, 08:06 AM

Beestie Lucky you. She must have... 06-12-2009, 09:20 PM

Aliantha Well hang in there dis. ... 06-11-2009, 10:51 PM

ZenGum Maybe you could try... 06-12-2009, 12:52 AM

disenchanted zengun: clearly, because I... 06-12-2009, 01:23 AM

xoxoxoBruce Au contraire, what you need... 06-12-2009, 01:30 AM

limey Hey, dis! I'll be thinking of... 06-12-2009, 02:33 AM

ZenGum Yeah, not exactly a... 06-12-2009, 01:30 AM

DanaC Be well Dis. Time will take... 06-12-2009, 05:38 AM

capnhowdy I hope I'm wrong, but I don't... 06-12-2009, 07:01 PM

disenchanted beestie, capnhowdy: I guess... 06-12-2009, 10:39 PM

Beestie We all hope so too. Life is... 06-13-2009, 12:34 AM

morethanpretty She sounds broken. Don't... 06-13-2009, 10:09 PM

disenchanted So I was sitting at a... 06-28-2009, 05:49 PM

ZenGum Good move Dis. 06-28-2009, 06:13 PM

Clodfobble Good for you, dis. You'll do... 06-28-2009, 06:16 PM

capnhowdy Yep. You got it now. Good... 06-28-2009, 08:20 PM

lumberjim post a picture of yourself 06-28-2009, 08:42 PM

xoxoxoBruce Oh no, now you're going to... 06-28-2009, 09:26 PM

disenchanted Well, I guess that does... 06-29-2009, 01:27 AM

limey :biglaugha Good for you... 06-29-2009, 02:52 AM

capnhowdy I think LJ's more into... 06-29-2009, 01:58 PM

DanaC Good stuff dis. Well on the... 06-29-2009, 02:03 PM

disenchanted I'm not dead yet. Talked with... 03-28-2011, 02:56 AM

limey Hey, dis! Good to see you... 03-28-2011, 04:53 AM

BigV Hi disenchanted-- Thanks... 03-28-2011, 10:15 AM

disenchanted BigV: 2010 was a weird year.... 03-28-2011, 02:50 PM

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